miranadobe
Posted : 10/14/2009 3:39:26 PM
At what point can you disown a sister? I have 6, two are blood related, one of whom has COLD COLD blood, apparently. My mom asked her to come over and let Zoe out for the morning while my mom and step-dad are at the hospital for my dad's surgery. Nah, she's too busy/not interested. Meanwhile, when my mom asked her to watch the dog so she could go visit her dying brother, my sister declined then, too. Same sister who had the gaul to be pissed at me for not sending a gift home for her youngest daughter's birthday. Um, hello - I've been unemployed for 6 weeks! Seriously!!!
Sorry, livid. But thankful that I reached a girl at their vet's office (Gracie's old vet, same one used for the Dobe rescue all our dogs came from) agreed to come let Zoe out before work, and even come by on her lunch break. A stranger can do more for my parents, than my own sister. The girl kept saying what a wonderful man my dad is, and she even got teared up worrying that he's ok. THAT's who I want looking after my dogs, for sure!!!!
My other sister, whom I live with here in Denver, is going to fly to NH to help my mom this weekend. My mom is a total worrier and will be a wreck. Hard to believe she used to admit people in an Emergency Room - you'd think she could handle stress, but I think with her brother dying recently and my dad's ill health, she's reached her max. I'm wondering more and more if I should just go back to NH to help her out, be with my friends, back in my network of peeps, etc. My old dog training pals are all back together, too, and they've become an even greater force in the dog training network, so it would be great to join them. Pie in the sky dreams for now, I suppose.