calliecritturs
Posted : 5/13/2007 11:58:56 AM
I find it interesting the different 'definitions' of extravagant that we all have. Some of that is by necessity. Some of it is by personality. Between a super chem blood panel, thyroid panel (to MS), urinalysis culture& sensitivity, and enough cyclosporine for the next month yesterday's vet visit was almost $800. THAT was just a "check up" for Billy (the IMHA dog) and Kee (and Ms. Luna who is a "cheap date" and only has to have her nails clipped).
I don't pay $40 for my own shoes much less a dog collar -- I'd probably choke if I tried. But my soul would scream "what if I NEED that money to pay a vet bill??
That's not to shove anything in anyone's face ... it's just interesting to me how differently we all live and what's important to each of us.
And yeah, Jenn -- you're right. Most people WOULD consider it 'extravagant' to go to a degreed behaviorist -- but it's what you perceive you need to do. And my bet is you probably make considerable sacrifice to do that.
A lot of people in my shoes would never have put the money into Billy's IMHA that we have (and would consider it money foolishly spent) but the only way I *can* justify it is to be super frugal in other ways and know I've done the best we could. If you asked my mother she calls me 10 kinds of fool to my face (and she still tells me to "put that one to sleep and get a healthy new one!').
But that IS one of the best things about the internet -- it gives each of us an appreciation (if we let it) for how the other guy lives and just why he makes the decisions he does.