Chuffy
Posted : 12/7/2008 10:34:35 AM
sillysally
I never said that stallions are "total pychos" but they do present some definite management challenges that frankly not everyone wants to deal with/can deal with. There are some very nice stallions, but they are still stallions, and their owners still recognize this and deal with the horse accordingly.
I didn't suggest that you had said that. I said that is how they are made out to be and it is not an accurate representation. Besides, horses are a wee bit different to dogs. The sheer size and power and therefore safety concern, is a major factor.
One COULD argue that if you can't handle an animal, get a different animal, rather than getting what you WANT and surgically altering the beast so you can "handle it". While I think that's a bit extremist, it certainly offers us food for thought, no?
Both you and Kate have a valid point - that in a lot of scenarios, the animal being neutered is for the best - but one would hope that the same owner would not make the same decision automatically for their next dog. Maybe they have more knowledge and experience by then, or maybe they have a dog with a different temperament, or one that they have trained more thoroughly or what have you. I am not saying "don't neuter!" I am saying that I HOPE we can ALL, (on both sides of the pond) move towards a point where we don't neuter AUTOMATICALLY.
sillysally
Sorry, but I think the idea that expectations form reality get many people into trouble because this simply is not true.
It's not ALWAYS true. But it is OFTEN true. And I don't think the notion gets people into trouble because I think all too often, people are unaware of it and the very opposite gets them into trouble! It's probably OT and I would be happy to start another thread if anyone else is interested.
sillysally
Your expectation is not going to make him ignore the drive to breed.
No it will not. But your expectation that the drive to breed will make him unmanageable will be a self fulfilling prophecy, IMO.
sillysally
Again, I never said that a dog isn't right until he's had the operation and I never meant that (and I suspect you know this).
Of course I do! I was speculating on the ORIGIN of the term. The very point I was making was that you had, probably quite inadvertantly, picked the exact word which sums up all I don't like about the attitude towards neutering 
sillysally
What I said was that if a person does not have the knowledge, the ability, or the desire to handled an intact animal then they should not keep said animal intact.
You are correct - but I suspect many people think "ooh I couldn't handle an intact male dog!" when this is actually COMPLETELY untrue. The truth is either:
- they COULD handle the animal, but BELIEVE they can't (thanks to propaganda)
- they could handle the animal but it would cause far more inconvenience.
Besides which, your sentiment (if a person does not have the knowledge, the ability, or the desire to
handled an intact animal then they should not keep said animal intact) is unfortunately not how the pet owning public are being encouraged to think. We are being told, "If you are not going to breed - NEUTER!"