Bonita of Bwana
Posted : 8/13/2008 6:27:06 PM
I did not read everyone Else's response because I wanted to be very honest about my own.....
I started a silly but honest thread the other day about buying a cyber dog to entertain the grandkids.... I am actually stressing over scheduling time to take care of a CYBER DOG !!! So that being said My deck may be short a few cards, ( probably eaten by the grand kids!) ...
I routinely visit and speak with some of our mentors, folks who have been in the passion for ages and have many more dogs than ourselves. I am using some close friends as an example. They have over a dozen RRs , many geriatrics, All show or retired show dogs. All live in the dog room off of the kitchen ( a converted attached garage) . They come in to the house to whelp in the kitchen dining area. They are in the dog room or the very nice run system otherwise. We co own a dog with them and my deepest fear is he will never understand the change of lifestyle when he is finished and goes to them to be shown. They assure me they will have him inside "like we do" but in the 20 + years we have known them they have never had a dog ( except a toy breed ) in the house. That toy dog is a grumpy snarly nasty little thing that we all love but geez it sure isn't an adoring happy go lucky hound ! Their dogs do exceptionally well in the show ring. When they travel they are in airline style crates with a few sheets of paper in for "padding" they never have calloused elbows or sores so the lack of expensive bedding has not been an issue. They get treats only when training or showing. They do not have damages done to their home by dogs. The dogs in my opinion , while beautiful and sweet are very limited in the ability to interact. Not one would lay it's life down for the family. And if they got loose they would not be running about trying to find a family member. They eat a very limited diet, never have scraps and show trots are a frequent problem when traveling.
Another set of very dear and close friends known slightly longer have spent in the Hundreds of Thousands on their dogs from the $90,000.00 kennel complete with a 24/7 Kennel Mgr ( my Oldest Brother) They have two breeds of dogs , a tiny terrier breed and Irish Wolfhounds. They have about a dozen dogs . 3 geriatric terriers live in the main house. 2 Irish Wolfhounds. The rest live in the Kennel Facility at the end of the drive way. Lovely landscaped puppy yard, Puppy Kindergarten room , lots of lovely furniture that they are all allowed on. They are kept in "rooms" that are about the size of huge box stalls, chain link walls with Italian tile floors, very open and generous. They have tons of heavy padded fleece beds , washed every two or three days. Toys that are changed out in the toy chest regularly to maintain interest, ( I would guess they have close to 50-60 toys in reserve at all times) .Before meeting us they were dearly loved but my friend said one day , about a year into our friend ship that I now had her saying things like " Then my dog ( insert name) stood there "thinking" or "saying "...before our friendship she had never really thought about her dogs in that manner. They were beloved and deeply spoiled but not furkids. The dogs are devoted to the family and my brother. They are watched over with great care and the owner's worry is if they got out they might get "lost". They have frequent gastric issues and have to be carefully maintained on a strict diet to avoid bloat, runs, and misc. vomiting
So we can call them kennel A and B... That would make me C...
My dogs are kenneled in the house right off the kitchen in what the builder had meant to be a Florida room. It is part of the living area . You can hear them if they are distressed or tearing up a toy. My dogs are crated every meal time ( to prevent the grand kids from feeding them all their Brussels Sprouts ) They are normally out and with us the rest of the time , excluding the grand's nap time or when we are gone. They think nothing of being on the furniture. Abandoning the over stuffed beds on the floor. We have referred to our dogs as jealous about or mad about something but it is normally in context of who has the bigger bone or is getting the most hands on attention or training. ( not sweaters or days to the beach) . I know for a fact my line is above and beyond devoted to our family. They have displayed it by taking the role of protector deeply to heart. Several have done things , from alerting on health issues like seizures to staying with a young master who wandered off on to a heavily wooded estate. (the dog had to scale an 8 foot fence to escape the outdoor kennel and floow the child for over 5 hours). My dogs always have bedding, but it may come from the cofortor section of the local Salvation Army, worn but clean. In hurricanes, travel, or night our dogs put themselves between ourselves and any unexpected noise or stranger. They stand their ground and alert first then warn off the subject or item. My dogs have cast iron stomachs, rarely get soft stools and will eat almost anything. Fruit, veggies, road kill ... My dogs get out once in a blue moon, they run wildly and joyfully for a 15 minute period unless caught more quickly. They ALWAYS return to the house or rv. The run is normally a big circle around where ever they know we are.
I KNOW my soul puppy did things to get even with me when I ticked her off. How? We would come back to the rv, hotel room or house and I would find ONLY my items trashed, only my side of the bed destroyed to the mattress while my husband's side would look as if a maid had just came in and cleaned. She never once destroyed another family member's poseesion , but if I scolded her or told her to stay that I was spending training time or showing another dog I would return to revenge taken !! She also got me off the road 6 times when I was driving before I had a seizure.
Do I anthropomorphize?? Absolutely. Does it harm my dogs? No they receive a superior level of attention and care from us. Not a hired caretaker . They are never boarded away from us. They do not live better than the family they live like the family. As part of the unit or pack. The show dogs I mentioned in Kennel A live about 2-4 years less than my average. They can go for weeks without seeing the owners and respond pretty equally to any caretaker. They are never over weight and nails are always maintained. When one is lost the owner's grieve but it is "different" it is a sad happening not a family loss. Kennel B 's dogs live to the mid limits of the breed's life expectancy and seem to have soooooo many medical issues it is confusing ? State of the art care , the round the clock supervision carefully planned show careers and breeding programs but still all of the issues you would think they would somehow be exempt from. Our dogs are more invested in emotionally and our puppies when placed are always with homes that share the same attitudes.
Bonita of Bwana