DumDog
Posted : 12/28/2007 1:46:27 AM
spiritdogs
ron2
snownose
you are free to use any description you like
Call me anything you want. Just don't call me late for dinner.
Ron, you're late for lunch. 
I prefer Patricia McConnell's suggestion that I be a "benevolent leader". That suggests that I am in control, but I don't have to be unpleasant about it.
that sounds like her [;D] i like Patricia a lot..
i have read a few books, watched CM, and some others(Pat OConnell among them), seen how they do it... honestly i've come to the conclusion that dogs are like people in that not every one thinks alike.... dogs are smart and adaptable... thats why they chose "bondage" as opposed to starving to death in the wilderness many moons ago. who ever, or what ever, the first dogs happened to be.. out casts? old and weak ex alpha, abandoned, stolen, or orphaned pup? something in their minds had an inkling for survival and they did what was necessary to insure that survival. its MY own opinion that .. like some say in regards to breeding for certain traits or temperament.. these first dogs had a temperament that told them to remain pliable and obedient because that meant survival.... and why not? why cant that trait be bred into dogs and expounded upon with each generation? just like some dogs are better at herding, hunting, and guarding... so it doesnt surprise ME that wolves would be different from dogs because dogs have been selectively bred to be manipulated... and wolves have NOT. but instincts remain! even humans have instincts... and how long have we been "civilised"? we still have brain farts and react on impulses even we cant explain.
for my own training purposes... yes i am the alpha, the leader, head honcho, gal in charge, the boss lady.... my dogs know this right off the bat - the cat is taking some convincing but he's coming around to the idea
the way my husband treats animals is contrasting to how i treat them. he thinks its personal when the cat pees in the laundry basket... he also thinks its personal when the dog runs from the other end of the room straight for him as he's walking only to be stepped upon. he thinks the dog did it on purpose to trip him. he wants to think that animals have a higher thinking level, like humans, and he wont listen to me when i try to explain how it REALLY works. but his experience with animals isnt the same as my own. i cant fault him for that.. he was raised old school..that you rub their nose in their pee, smack'em with a news paper, everything you read in those musky old dog training books from the 1950's.... but he's only ever actually owned ONE dog. sure he does have a way with animals (and he gets cocky about that too...) but when it comes down to facts and reality.. the poor boy doesnt have a clue! i cant convinced him that animals do NOT think like people and neither should they be treated like people!
i wont say they're DUMBER or deserve less respect than people... but i will say their agenda and ours are similar but not the same. i've literally "lived" with my dogs.. when i was a kid my dogs were my friends and only companions for many many years. i can think "DOG" better than i can think "HUMAN" .... i can read body language and tones in both species better than i can understand the words coming out of a humans mouth, or whats written on this screen. So in my travels as an actual "dog"person i have noticed there is no one set method for training. its all about understanding THAT individual.. and i dont care what any book or pro. trainer says... this is what i have learned, and i am STILL learning.. and probably my number one reason why i only lurk in this section of the forum... i wont doubt that ALL of these methods work... whether its the pack theory or what have you... i have no doubts that my dogs would function just as well with any other method you throw at them.. each of my dogs today all responds to a different method and tone anyway.... why? because two of them were both over the age of one year when i got them. and sure i owned Amber for three years since puppyhood... but there is also a three year gap in our relationship and she isnt the same dog anymore. so i've discovered all by myself( with no help from any book or trainer) that rotating a dog from one home to another and allowing different people to make their impression on it can make it all the more confusing and difficult for them to be trained. (again, thats what i have seen for myself in my own world) raising them from a puppy in a consistent household ... you could use any method you jolly well please and still get good results..
i have to laugh at comments about CM being overly harsh on dogs while training.... tell you what... i think dogs are harsh on each other when setting up their own boundaries and limitations... so are horses... if some cowboy went out and kicked his horse because it bit him he would get reamed up one side and down the other... but if that same horse bites a member of his herd.. he's gonna get kicked! and harder! and probably more than once, and bitten for good measure. NO I AM NOT CONDONING THE HITTING OF ANIMALS. i am pointing out that a few individuals out there OBSERVED how these animals treat each other.. so the applied those methods to their own animals and they liked the results.. they feel its more on that animals level of thinking.. and who could blame them for making that connection?
anyway i had to add my two cents... dont bother ripping it up either because i'm going back into lurk mode here