corvus
Posted : 12/10/2007 2:30:29 AM
espencer, how do you know the way a dog thinks? How do you know your dog doesn't feel one thing inside but show another on the outside? Sometimes my dog gets annoyed with one of her yard mates. She'll grumble to herself, and sometimes she bares her teeth at the dog that's annoying her. I know my dog generally uses bared teeth as the warning before bared teeth and a snarl, which is the warning before she air snaps. How do I know when she bares her teeth she wouldn't prefer to be air-snapping, but doesn't want to get into an argument with a dog she knows will beat her? Why wouldn't she scale back her signals despite being royally pissed off in the interests of protecting her skin? Sometimes she grumbles at me, while carefully hiding her teeth and looking away. How could I know she wouldn't prefer to bare her teeth at me but feels it's not in her best interests to annoy the one that brings good things? You just can't know these things.
And another thing. Those of you picking at Dunbar's 'gentling', I thought I saw in the quote that this was a technique he used for a puppy that was throwing a tantrum. That's quite different to doing it routinely to all puppies.
And hey, talking about times to use force to calm, I have done this once or twice with Penny when we had some big fireworks going off across the road. She was just about beside herself. One time I boxed her into her 'den' with my body and sat down with her with my leg quite firm against her back. She tried to get up to run around the house in hysterics, but I kept my leg on her back and she decided it would be better to stay with me. She relaxed and I was able to take my leg away and she didn't run off to bark hysterically. Sometimes hysterical animals can benefit from being forced to calmness, but only if they actually do get calm. I have a nice big balance in our piggy bank of trust, so Penny didn't take much convincing with force. However, had I done it to her when she was a puppy or when I didn't know her that well, perhaps she would have found that scary rather than reassuring. Of course, try to hold my hare to calm him down and he won't look at you for the next week, so furious and betrayed will he be.