spiritdogs
Posted : 12/9/2007 11:00:10 AM
DPU
ron2
So, do you alpha roll your dogs preemptively to stop a fight you think they might get into? How can you tell when that's going to happen? I have to admit that I'm not that good. It would explain why I can handle only one dog and one cat.
glenmar
Ron, there are signs that are pretty easy to pick up on once you know what to look for.....the ear set, the way the tail is held, the little patch of hair on the neck that suddenly stands up, posture. If you'd like more information, feel free to pm me and I'l be happy to share in a calmer environment.
From my experience and observation it is the other dog that has control over the situation. It is the other dog’s reaction to the calming signals sent by the dog that most people focus on. The other dog is going to ignore, match, escalate, or appease. I find my Great Danes are ideally suited to be the first greeter of a new foster. Their giant physique naturally responds as an appeasement signal. To greet another dog, they must bow their heads or stoop. My Danes have a lot a lot of confidence in meeting any dog with any varying temperament. Now when introducing the remaining pack to the new dog, I watch the new foster dogs closely to see the reaction of the other fosters. The new foster dog is now the greeter.
In your situation, that is probably true. But, in my experience, the balance can shift. A dog that has always been the greeter can suddenly become the greetee (for lack of a real word), depending on the dog he is meeting. I do notice that, with the Danes in my play group, there is somewhat of a calming effect related to size as you describe it. But, believe me, we have one that will play bow, and if the other dog is nervous, will then scrunch himself down into a lower than low little Great Dane puddle on the floor trying to show how non-threatening he is. He usually gets even the tiny dogs to play with him;-)
For the record, I have not taken my dogs to dog parks either, since I run a supervised play group and have other options for exercising them outdoors. I heard that our ACO is planning one, though.