Ixas_girl
Posted : 6/8/2007 5:56:08 PM
Nicely laid out posts above ... especially Kim and DPU. Very clear in your thinking! Well written. Thanks for sharing. When we write with accuracy, we can see that we#%92re not looking at "semantics," and we can get to the real meat of it all. The results of our analysis, of each packet of impulse/behavior/response, carries significance in how we chose to work with our dogs. This is how we divide ourselves into different value communities.
ORIGINAL: ron2
...give a man a fish and feed him dinner, teach a man to fish and feed him for life
give a man a fish and you have fed him for a day.
teach a man to fish and he will spend 8 hours in a boat, drinking beer.[
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Lol ... this is why I also gave my dog flooding. Ixa's reactivity was off-the-charts frustration, wanting to "get to" the so-called "scary thing" (mostly dogs, but also cats and squirrels). Desensitization helped me teach her some impulse control ... then graduated flooding (introducing her into dog groups) gave her the immersion to apply that learning in interactions with other dogs (or "learn how to fish").
We all develop our own ideology, here#%92s my own mutli-faceted approach (this is for today only ... check back with me next week when I#%92ve already learned a bunch more that makes my current learning out-of-date ):
~ Maintain and establish good relationship with dog (leadership/nilif/life) - ongoing, persistent, 24/7
~ conditioning/counter-conditioning to particular trouble spots (desensitization/flooding) - temporary, controlled contexts
~ "training" (classical/operant) - temporary, controlled contexts
~ Crisis management - be ready!
~ Context approprateness - ongoing, persistent, 24/7
That last one, context appropriateness goes beyond "one size does#%92t fit all." For me, it's evaluating each situation we're in, when we're in it. It's crisis? Do management. It's training? Do training. This is why I don't do counter-conditioning on a walk - walk is leadership mode - it's a more appropriate mode for disallowing escalations in the first place. Similarly I don't do trianing in crisis mode, though I do seek to embed the physical experience in my dog that I would most like her to retain (safety and calm vs panic).
I can#%92t emphasize enough that sharing various ways of assessing good outcomes doesn#%92t make some of us right and others wrong ... it makes us human ... and civilized enough to live with our differences.