Chuffy
Posted : 1/24/2007 8:10:50 AM
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I have an acquaintance who has an apparently normal, happy, well adjusted Yorkshire Terrier. This person still believes the best way to house train a dog s to rub his nose in his own mess when he does it indoors. Now some people may think I'm being emotive and wishy wash here but that IS barbaric. Yet the dog seems happy now. So does that mean the training method she used was a good one? Personally I think treatment like that is cruel, unnecessary and definately NOT "ok". The fact that the dog is happy is not a testament to her method of training or communicating with her dog or her level of success. It's a testament to how forgiving dogs can be. Some people will say of a training method "Well if it works and the dog seems happy, wheres the harm?" My answer is, I believe there is a better way and dogs deserve better.[/blockquote]
I have a friend of a friend of a friend, who say's their uncles, sisters, moms, brother who beats their dog and the dog *seems* happy. How without seeing the dog for ourselves are we suposed to believe the dog is happy. Anyone can *claim* that. Seeing it for ourselves is totally different. I know dogs who are spoiled, and to their *owners* they seem happy, but that wasn't the case. I will agree, it's IMO not something someone should do though.
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Now before anyone firebombs my house, I am NOT suggesting CM has EVER done this or advised anyone to do it. He hasn't. Nor am I suggesting ANYTHING he has done is as bad as this - it's not, not by miles. What I'm saying is, if that Yorkie can still manage to be happy with his owner, CMs pack should have no worries! I'm using this (true) story to illustrate why we can't take the pack as being happy as a thumbs up for CMs method. If someone comes along and says they don't think CMs method is very dog friendly (now me, sometimes I think it is and sometimes it isn't), I do not think it is relevant to point to his happy pack to disprove that.[/blockquote]
While I can see with my own eyes, he's has a happy pack, again we don't know if your friends dog is actually happy. Perhaps your just missing the signs of a dog who's not as happy as you think. Who's owner doesn't IMO know what they're doing. Yes some dogs are very forgiving, but there's always signs of mistreatment. Dogs don't lie.
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I'm going to break my resolution now and respond to this because I can't pass up the chance for at least one exchange on on a contraversial subject that manages to stay civil. Just to clarify, I know this person and her dog quite well and see them regularly because they are a friend of the family who lives nearby. I used the term "acquaintance" rather than "friend" because I don't class anyone who abuses animals this way as a personal "friend".
The best I can do is offer an honest evaluation and you'll have to take my word for it or not as it pleases you. Of course I might be missing something, I am not infallible. While I don't consider myself an expert on dogs, I don't consider myself a novice either. Other people will just have to read my posts to make up their own mind just how knowledgeable they think I am and whether what I think of this dog is worth anything. I should add that the Yorkie is a particularly robust breed. He is not a lap dog, he is a
terrier and as such is game and hardy. The yorkie in question is typical of this. And I have not suggested dogs lie - there is a difference in lying and forgiving. Perhaps this is yet another area where we will have to agree to disagree. You can be as skeptical of me as you like, but please try not to take up more than one post in saying so!!!!
As for the fact that there are some things viewers can take away from the show safely, agreed 100%. Treating a dog like a dog and not a child for a start. Adequate exercise. Setting rules. Being
calm and assertive - a wonderful phrase that cannot be overused. Being a leader - although here there are areas where I disagree with CMs way of achieving this. Where he brings to people's attention these things at the end of the show, I think it would be wise and valuable to also bring to people's attention the parts that carried risk and needed to be done properly with the aid of a professional to minimise harm to the dog or danger to the owner or others around them. That would be more balanced if you see what I mean. I haven't seen every show, so maybe he has done this and I haven't seen it., feel free to correct me at any time (just no Tsssting please)
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ORIGINAL: luvmyswissy
NILIF in opnion is about "controlling" resources not "earning" them. The earning them part is +R piece that makes it work so well.
Oh dear breaking another resolution, but couldn't resist...... it stands for Nothing In Life Is
Free - which I would interpret that they have to
earn everything good in life. Sorry if someone already said that and I missed it.
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Well now that you put it that way I understand... man.. what a frightening scenario you've thought up there.. Cesar's actions could have a ripple affect that could cause a tear in the space-time continuum and destroy reality as we know it.
Sorry to pick on you personally Trevell but this is just ONE example of unnecessary sarcasm that sours the discussion for everyone and both "sides" are guilty of it at times..... And that's why I'm not even coming back to read this thread anymore, let alone post on it, it just puts me off. Shame, because it was a really good discussion at one point.