calliecritturs
Posted : 9/25/2015 9:00:31 AM
Glenda -- for what it's worth -- here's my take on 'age'. I'll never be sorry we took Tink. She was a total wild child of not quite 6 months but there's such a sweet spirit there she never drove us horribly crazy . But that basic sweetness coupled with the fact that she was SO frigging sick when we got here (and i know YOU remember this) just made age almost a non-issue. (i.e., you saved my life so I'll do ANYTHING to plesse you)
However -- Luna was 9+ months old and your basic typical Poster Child of "the dog stamped 'incorrigible' because no one taught it a thing during its formative months and most of all the dog was never taught that pleasing a human was important". She's a smart girl and trainers just gush about how much they love her, but she has always been and likely will stay the one dog who has been THE most difficult to train (even now when she's like 14).
So yeah, Luna is that dog who came from a shelter with "baggage" and training has always been the big deal.
So I've said that to say this -- I'm so glad we got Tink when she was super young but she IS an anomaly and I likely will never voluntarily take a baby puppy again. And honestly it would never be my choice to take a "teenager" dog like Luna who was in that full rebellious phase when we got her.
BUT I have totally fallen in love with taking on an older dog. There are SO many dogs out there who are totally mature, and who have just gotten a raw deal.. "I'm 6 but my human's new girlfriend wants a baby and no dog" or "my humans lost their home and had to give me up". -- mature dogs are SO often unbelievably l**grateful** for a home. You may only have them a few years but we've had so many unbelievably wonderful "mature" dogs -- like Billy, Kee Shu, Ms. Socks, Curley (the one who had lived with the circus??) and Charlie .
There is just something so incredbily MAGIC about taking an older dog who may often be totally shut down convinced it's his lot in life to have to take that long walk down to that room no one ever comes out of -- and bringing them home, and suddenly seeing them blossom.
Like that Pyr -- if DS will commit to the physical aspects of owning a HUGE dog (so Mom and Dad don't have to man-handle a 200 pound dog into the car to go to the vet, etc.) that's fine. But David and I have learned to love the mature ones SO much and it is SO unbelievably exciting to see them blossom.
It's never ever easy losing a dog, but as I age, I guess I'm so much more aware that a senior dog can honestly bring more to ME emotionally and I've now had the opportunity to experience 5 dogs where I otherwise may have only experienced 1 who lived 15 years. Did that make sense?