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Posted : 9/21/2009 2:26:45 PM
Liesje
I feel for people like this guy that don't show or work dogs and don't care to show or work dogs b/c how is he supposed to know which people are legit and which are taking him for a ride?
He's doing the right thing simply by talking to you about the whole thing. He's getting himself educated; and he's smart enough to know that he needs to get educated by someone like you.
I would suggest that you tell him to take his time, don't rush. Think about it for a good long while until he is good and ready to take the plunge. Since he is not going to rescue (for his own reasons, not for any of us to judge); he'll want to get his next pup from a reputable breeder, of which you know many. The arguement of spending more on the purchase so as to (possibly) help keep health maintenance costs down later is a good one. Of course, you'll explain its never a guarantee, but it does help tip the scales towards health cost savings and potential heartbreak of losing a sick dog from complications of bad breeding.
It will be his ultimate decision as to whether he wants to pay the big bucks for a dog of his choice or go to Petfinders and find a rescue that will be close to his original desire. You'll tell him those are the decisions he will need to contemplate. Tell him not to make that decision right off the bat. Tell him to spend the next 6 months to a year searching. He should visit the breeders on the list that you can furnish him. He should also consider Petfinders for a potential match for his lifestyle if his wallet just can't cooperate.
When I was ready for a new GSD pup, I took a year to do it; talking to other GSD owners, talking to breeders, competitors, until I found Heidi's breeder. Then I asked folks about this breeder; and he (and his dogs) came with good recommendations. I then went to his property and fell in love with Heidi's sire...that was all it took.
Yep, she was expensive and comes from a good line of competitors, but I had already decided to spend the money on a "well-bred" dog even though I had no desire to show or compete.
When I was ready for a Heidi companion, I wanted to rescue. Even that took a while...then I found Bruder, and I just knew it was right.
That's the other thing you could encourage with this fella. Encourage him to wait until it "feels right." Don't rush it; if he does, he may miss out on the dog that is supposed to be "his."