brookcove
Posted : 7/9/2009 11:46:31 PM
My prayers are with you for sure.
My "little" brother (now 30!) is a special needs kid. He was a real blessing, and also a real challenge (I am ten years older than him, so had a lot to do with his raising for eight years until I left for college, and after that I worked with Special Olympics, and as an aid in non-mainstream classes). Most of all though, he is "just a kid." By that I don't mean any less than anyone else, but just as much as anyone else, if that makes sense.
He's autistic, so the joys are a bit few and far between. Definitely not the case with a Downs kid! What amazing people. I am hard pressed to view Downs syndrome as a "mistake." I don't recall the other conditions you mentioned - I mean, in connection with anyone I worked with personally.
I just wanted to share that. I know it's not a huge comfort when you are dealing with the upset of your dreams of a healthy child, but I'm sure you know that God's got something special planned no matter what happens - and He's got you, your husband, AND your baby in His hand.