ron2
Posted : 7/26/2008 12:31:01 PM
gahustle
defended my posts, because instead of getting helpful advice on how to be a good owner, i got critics saying how im going to be a bad owner
This will be tough for you to imagine but consider it a challenge. You're about 18 years old by now, right? You were approx 17 the first time you came in with a dog issue last year? Anyway, here's the challenge. A number of us here, myself especially, are old enough to be your parents. We have learned a few things you don't know, even if it's just because we have been around longer. Amstaffy has been showing American Staffordshires since you were born. So, you would do well to listen to her. Another thing that helps in life is a little bit of humility. The other concerns are because your initial posts raised a number of red flags, especially with a breed such as yours that is under the gun. That is, the owners of pit bulls face extra challenges aside from the strength and tenacity of the breed. They have the entire country, it seems like, against them. And it doesn't help to go into this ill-prepared. And the people here do mean well, even if you don't like the way they said it, just as your determination to be a good owner may be there despite your seemingly getting your dander up.
As for the skin problem, it is either a skin condition or a genetic problem, which would describe a bad breeding. I'm still not sure your source was intentionally breeding or had an oops litter. Another reason to get your dog neutered as soon as possible. (I know that will tick of some here who don't believe in spay/neuter. They can live with it.) You took an excellent pic of your dog. It is neither brindle or rednose, that I can see, which may mean that the dam had more than one sire, another sign of bad breeding. Or a bad gene mix of parents, lending to different colors and a double recessive causing skin problems.
As for tying out the dog, don't do it. Other than as necessary a few times. Dogs are not humans. But it is you assuming that they will think they are human for being in the house. Trust me, the dog does not think he is human. He has better standards than that.
Neuter your dog. His reproductive organs are not manifestations of your own. To think of his spark plugs as your own is to consider him human and having a human's ability (at times) to exercise reproductive control. They simply don't view mating the way we do. And we don't need another litter of solid black "brindle rednose" Pitties running around.
I realized after a few posts before I finished reading the thread that you were determined to buy this dog, regardless of all the sound advice offered. And that you were really just looking for advice on how to treat the skin. But there is more to caring for a dog than just rubbing on some ointment, putting out food and water. Every dog, regardless of breed, needs attention, training, exercise of some sort, even if it's just playing tug or fetch. Pit bulls are extremely biddable. You want them to win off-leash obedience awards and be a kiddie pillow, they will do it. You want them to stay in the backyard on a chain and be mean and scare everything off, they will do it. Whatever it takes to make you happy.
And have patience with yourself. As you grow older and begin to realize how much you don't know, then you can truly learn. It's a simple math equation, really. If you think you know everything, you can't learn anything. Trust me, I know. I don't know nearly as much as I thought I did when I was your age, which was quite a while back.