Benedict
Posted : 5/6/2008 6:52:54 AM
You know what gets me?
We are all encouraged, once past a certain age, to find the best possible mate for ourselves and build a life with them. We might all make mistakes in that search, or some people might make none and find "their one" on the first try, but at least with humans it's socially acceptable to "try" for a few months and then return the guy (or girl) if it's not a good fit.
Anyway, in that search we look for someone who is attractive according to our standard, intelligent at the level we like, compatible as far as hobbies go, only as irritating as we can handle as far as bad habits go and above all else, someone with whom we experience pure joy simply by being around them. Sure, every once in a while a well-meaning friend will say "you're too choosy" if we complain once again at being single, but we are encouraged not to settle for anything less than the best for ourselves. The reason we're not all fighting over the same guy is that we all have different opinions and priorities with regards to those characteristics, and others too. Some of us don't mind the guy who comes with "baggage" because his last girlfriend chewed him up and spit him out, others prefer someone less "complicated. Some of us are OK with the guy who has been single for years, and some will steer clear because "something must be wrong with him". Without doubt, we all have differing opinions on what constitutes "attractive", but I for one don't automatically assume that a handsome guy must be deficient in some other area - or at least not one that would bother me.
So I go looking for a dog, deciding on a breed that is attractive according to my standard, intelligent/trainable at a standard I like, compatible with my lifestyle and my hobbies, with as few bad habits as possible and who will provide unmeasurable joy and companionship for me, and I am suddenly an elitist because I look for a breeder who strives to provide all of those things for me at levels as close as possible to what I want? This is suddenly, somehow, a bad thing? Do I owe myself less with regards to a dog than I do to a human because it's "just a dog"?
And that's why I won't ever support someone who is breeding the family pet. They aren't looking to provide a complete package, to provide a puppy buyer with the best possible pet. If I want a dog, I will go to a breeder who is, or a rescue that has a dog which fits my needs already. I'm an elitist - and thanks to this thread, proudly so - because I see no reason to make getting a dog any more of a crapshoot than it already is. It's not like I can ask the dog on our first date whether he likes agility, or if he knows how to sit down, whether his mum ever bit the postman or if his grandfather ever had a hip replacement.