Girly Question

Depends on how waxed you get. When I used to get a bikini wax the woman would wrap a piece of tissue around the edge of my underwear and have me hold it up as high as I wanted it, (usually just past the edge of where your bathing suit would hit), and then she'd apply the wax to the exposed area. If you want EVERYTHING off, I think that might be weird to have someone else do it.

Dang, y'all! What you ladies are going through!

Hair removal is just not my scene. At all. And this entire thread just made me make one big "whhhhheeeeewwww!" noise. I'm exhausted just listening to what y'all are doing!  I just can not be bothered (*yawns* I am very lazy). I grow hair and I'm pretty happy to just let it all stay where it is. 

Interestingly enough, I haven't practiced any kind of hair removal since my first year of college, and I never had any problems with the menfolk. I think a lot of (single) women assume they have to do this stuff in order to be attractive to the mens, but I made a discovery: if a fella wants to tap that, he'll tap that hirsute for sure. And if the only reason a guy doesn't want to be with me is the hair? Well, take a hike jack. But honestly, I never once had any guy first ask me out, then look at my legs and retract the invitation.

I've had someone else take pretty much everything off....it is, um....a little weird lol.  Slightly humiliating, but she was very professional about it. 

Cressida, you crack me up...."tap that hirsute"...LMAO. 
 

LOL they have no issue tapping it....or telling every one of their friends the details either. Having been among my DH's frat bros man they had some funny stories about those situations. Not suitable for the forum...but hysterical nonetheless.

Gina, you've got my email addy.   

houndlove

I think a lot of (single) women assume they have to do this stuff in order to be attractive to the mens, but I made a discovery: if a fella wants to tap that, he'll tap that hirsute for sure. And if the only reason a guy doesn't want to be with me is the hair? Well, take a hike jack. But honestly, I never once had any guy first ask me out, then look at my legs and retract the invitation.

Heeheehee!!

The BF knows far better than to ever comment negatively on whatever might be growing in whatever areas I choose to allow it to grow (he well knows that which he comments negatively on he never gets to see again), however, if I really want to get his attention, all I have to do is mention, "I just shaved/waxed!" And suddenly he's all ears and offering backrubs. It even tears him away from computer games, lol! A lot depends on the guy, and on the particular follicular forest in question. If I let mine go, you'd need a machete to get through there, I swear...

l.michelle

I think I might go to get waxed before I go on vacation, but isn't it odd, I mean, having a person do that to you?

It's not a big deal at all.   It's like going to the gynecologist.   And, in my experience, the parts that make it "brazilian" aren't a big deal to wax, it's the stuff that normal bikini waxes cover that hurt the most.   At least for me.  My partner doesn't care about this stuff at all, which is fine with me - people with waxing expectations of their partners creep me out.

 

l.michelle

I think I might go to get waxed before I go on vacation, but isn't it odd, I mean, having a person do that to you?

It is a bit odd the first few times, but it's not any worse than a visit to the gynecologist.  I'm accustomed to it now, so I usually go prepared.  I take my ipod, & my cell phone.  I can listen to music & check my emails while being waxed.