DumDog
Posted : 7/26/2007 1:29:11 PM
this is soooooo funny because last night while taking a shower i had an idea for a story (yeah my ideas always hit me when i am farthest away from a pen and paper)
i think if you look at it from a Christian perspective along the lines of comparing people to sheep and God to the shepherd then yes you do have free will.... sort of.
in that area of the world and back then.. sheep were free to graze and wander the land as long as they stayed with the flock. if they did choose to wander off alone then they were um... eaten.
i think the context is "Yes you have free will and the right to use it, but you will also suffer the consequences of those choices."
you might say the same for feral dogs. they have free will to wander all over the place, pee on what ever they want, but if they get caught in the act of raiding a chicken coop or if they bite a person then they suffer those consequenses.
and as for advice and others experiences... you have the free will to listen and NOT pay heed.
AND on the notion of sexually abused becoming sexual abusers... i was abused twice in my life and i'm not a pervert.....
my husband was abused at the age of 10 by the scout master and HE is not a pervert.
both of my sisters were also abused (by the same person that got to me) and neither one of them are perverts... though one of my sisters is totally withdrawn and feels truck loads of self loathing and 0 self esteem....
i think you have the choice to be a product of your environment OR to be a product of the choices you make. it all has to do with mental discipline and how strong your mind is...... i do believe there are more weak minds than strong ones.... which is why we have fashion and themes and the word "Cool" as well as pack mentality when we're with friends.
as a kid i never did what i was told by the adults... but i also never got into trouble by looking for acceptance from the cool kids.
i only cleaned my room when i felt like it, and i never did drugs or stole anything (except the one time i stole bubble gum when i was like... five..)
i have a family full of law enforcement and i know a LOT of tricks on how to not get caught. i've had oppertunities to get away with murder... but i didnt give in to those things just so i could profit... i just didnt care. by not caring about anything you are exorcising your free will. well.... i like to think that's free will.