Should I be suspicious?

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    Lots of people have come to this board to ask for advice, myself included. No shame in that.
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    Take some time out for yourself this weekend, clear your head, get your thoughts in order, relax, mentally prepare for Sunday. You should talk to your wife, good communication is so important for a strong marriage. Good luck!
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    I have been following this thread and thinking of you.  Hope it all works out for you.... my feeling is that this will turn out to be nothing - BUT the whole incidnt seems to have brought to a head other underlying issues... I hope you can resolve them.
     
    Good luck for Sunday [:)
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    Take care of yourself. BTW, did I ever mention that I think your cat's name Dodo is pretty cool?

     
    Her real name is Wendy-but she's a psycho kitty.  "Love me, love, love m....GET YOUR HANDS OFF OF ME FREAK"  That's how she's always been.  Super loving for like 3 minutes and then she tries to rip your hand off of your arm.
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    Dear god I read that totally wrong and for a minute there I thought you were talking about your wife!!!!
     
    Please don't be offended!  I'm such an @$$.
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    ORIGINAL: Chuffy

    Dear god I read that totally wrong and for a minute there I thought you were talking about your wife!!!!

    Please don't be offended!  I'm such an @$$.


    Don't be sorry, that's the first time I laughed out loud all day![:)]
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    Sorry, I don't mean to burden everyone with my troubles.

     
    Proof Ed is really a man. He says one sentence and thinks he's unloaded on us. [:)]
     
    Good luck. I think things will be fine--but boy, there's nothing like having a cellphone call that assures you of that. A call to say, "What the bleep? Why is there another phone on OUR bill?!" Then you know you're in in together.
     
    Nancy and her hairy kids.
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    I agree with Kate... it's a good thing that you didn't burden yourselves with children when there is so much turmoil. ... even though I know it's something you've wanted. I say, there is no good that can come of this and maybe do what's been lurking this whole time.

    Maybe it's time to move on.

    Goodluck, Ed. ... Stella's been one lucky lady, I'm sure she'll realize what she's missing once it's too late. Seems that's always how it works out.

    Man, thank God for cellular phones, otherwise that's 2 cheating events that people wouldn't have known about, and that's JUST here on idog.
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    I hope you find out what is going on.
    I wish the best for you.
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    Ed, have you been able to talk to her about everything? I've been thinking about you...
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    [sm=bump2.gif]  yeah, inquiring minds want to know...
     
    Can we go with the "no news is good news" theory?
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    I don't have a bunch of time to write a detailed reply right now, I'll get to that later this evening.
     
    At this point I'll just say that things aren't well at all.  The confrontation about the phone led to a pretty big fight and everything was turned back on me-so now I'm the one to blame.  The future isn't really looking all that cheery between Stella and myself.
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    Well I am sorry to read that.
    I am still hoping for the best tho for both of you, whatever that may entail! [sm=crossfingers.gif]
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    Got it all crossed here [sm=crossfingers.gif][sm=crossfingers.gif][sm=crossfingers.gif]
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    I am sorry Ed, if that is an appropriate sentiment to express.  I wouldn't have been such an ass had I suspected there was anything to this.