DumDog
Posted : 5/7/2007 11:05:22 PM
my problem with Harry Potter is.... its unnerving to find him sexually attractive when you can litterally watch him go through puberty in one evening just by having a HP Movie Marathon.... eeewwwww [:'(] which is probably why i never dated the guys i grew up with. i can still get vivid memories of them in kindergarten.. eating boogers and pretending to be Heman and Conan... I expect to see my own kids doing those things, but i would have a hard time looking my husband in the eyes with a straight face if i had ever seen him during those tender years.
some would accuse me of looking for a father figure just like they would accuse my hubby of having a midlife crisis, but believe it or not that wasnt the case. my theory was.... i dont want to TRAIN a guy my own age for uh... the first time.... noooo waaaay!! i want someone that KNOWS what he's doing. you get my meaning? I also dont want to train a guy on how to behave in a relationship. i dont want him pandering to me, or trying to make me happy just to get what he wants. nah i need someone that can think for himself and wont let someone walk all over him. i know that doesnt exactly come with an age label but these days it kinda does.... a lot of young guys are terrified of women in that they dont think of what it means to be a gentleman. i have seen some girls get really snotty just because a guy held the door open for them. Nah i like the old fashioned types, Indiana Jones or Bogart personalities. the bigger the jerk the better lol i like a strong personality. and from what i have seen on my own, "Boys" just dont get it until they're grown.
anyway i like what i have right here. we have a huge age gap and we get a lot of funny looks, but we see past it. when we're at home just vegging all we see is each other. i'm not at all worried about him being unable to go outside and throw a ball for our boys in ten years. or... being unable to do
other things...