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Posted : 3/18/2007 12:03:38 PM
All right I going to preface my adventures last night by giving ya#%92ll a little info about both Ryan & myself. Ryan is a very straight laced, tightie whitie type of guy. While he is comfortable in social situations, he is a bit aloof & at times seems unapproachable. He prefers to stay at home with only a few close friends. I#%92m his exact opposite. I want to talk to everyone around, & I tend to speak first, think later. I love to go out & have a good time & would be thrilled to go out 5-6 nights a week. When I go out I want everyone to know that I am there. I love to be in the spotlight.
I went ahead & warned my friends that he was coming, & asked that they allow him to stay if he so chose. They agreed that he would be allowed in & treated decently.
I decided that I did want everyone to know that I was at this party to have fun, so I dressed accordingly. I wore a denim skirt that covered my assets. Then since, St. Paddy#%92s Day Green just isn#%92t my color, I decided to have a body artist airbrush on a shamrock bikini. I had a shamrock on each of my “girls” and what looked like strings holding them on. I will admit that I was a little uncomfortable with actually being painted, & I didn#%92t realize that I#%92d be sitting/standing for about 2 ½ hours for that amount of painting. But the end result looked great & unless someone tried to untie the strings, you couldn#%92t tell that this wasn#%92t an actual bikini.
Anyway, I got to the party a little late, because my designated driver, my younger brother Cory, was running late. As we pulled up, I saw Ryan#%92s vehicle already parked & was a little disappointed. (I was hoping that he wouldn#%92t show up.) Once I walked in my friends surrounded me (pregnant friend was already pissed) and tried to quietly warn me that he had brought a date, & to make sure that I was ok with this. I saw him from across the room with his arm around his date & almost started crying, but instead I pulled it back together & went on about my business. As soon as he saw me, his jaw dropped & he came walking over with his date. As he introduced us, I realized that this was the same girl that I had spoke to on the phone. (Small world isn#%92t it?) After introductions were made, she wandered off & he told me that he couldn#%92t believe that I would wear something like that, & tried to put his jacket around me. I shook off his attempts & decided to hit the bar outside on the patio, so that I didn#%92t have to stay inside with them. The band was playing out in the yard, so I stayed outside to enjoy the sounds with most of my friends. I decided to help sing with the band. (This is not unusual for me, I do it all the time.) I sang 4 songs with them & 1 more that wasn#%92t even something this band would normally play. (I know 3 of the 4 members so they were willing to play just about anything) I sang Seether#%92s Broken. Everyone at the party came out to watch. I was having a great time, & Ryan‘s expression went from pissed off to almost crying. He decided that the way to get back at me was to start putting on a public display with Ms. Atlanta. Bad call, pregnant friend blew up calling him name combinations that I can honestly say that I have never heard, slapped him twice, called her a whore & threw them both out. They left & the night went on.
The party started winding down at about 4:00 a.m. & 4 of the friends are staying with me so we headed home. I forgot how bad Cory drives & was felling sick. (I#%92m pretty sure that I was turning green) When we got back to my house, who was sitting on the front porch…Ryan. He said, “We need to talk” I just walked on by him (focused on walking straight & not stumbling) he grabbed me by the arm & spun me around. Then Cory stepped in & informed him that he would not be talking to me now, nor was he to call me in the future & if he ever touched me again he#%92d be sorry. Ryan backed down & left quickly.
This morning, I am physically hurting from a hangover, & it looks as if my arm will be bruised, but I feel better that I went ahead & went to the party. I am so happy that I didn#%92t do anything mean or spiteful since he was already miserable, just because I had a good time. He has called 16 times this morning so it looks as if today his phone will be cancelled & my number will be changed.
All in all I had a great time. I got to see friends, goof around, & drink more than what I should have. It was a goooood night.