griffinej5
Posted : 4/12/2012 4:39:59 PM
Maybe Sonja clicked it back into place now. Glad to hear it's getting better either way.
I got scratched up at work today, and the poor little girl I work with has been sick all week, so I haven't seen her. I didn't quite catch what she has, but the doctor said it could be up to two weeks. The poor kid. The other one, the one who scratched me up, I'm so glad that after tomorrow, I won't see him until next Saturday. We are so done and over each other at this point. I am so done and over with his mom at this point actually. Parents, do not laugh at your child's inappropriate behavior. If your child is capable of something, albeit it not really great at it, let him do it. I taught that boy to eat with a spoon 5 years ago. He does not need help with using a spoon (he can't use a fork by himself, so I did help him eat something that he needed a fork for earlier this week). If there is food on the other side of the plate, he'll push it back with his own spoon if he is hungry and wants to eat it. I will not do it for him, don't tell me to do it for him, and don't come over and do it for him. I have invested hundreds of hours of my life (and altogether, hundreds of thousands of dollars have been spent) towards helping him become the capable young man that he is, but he still has a very long way to go. If people treat him like he is incapable, and do things for him he can do on his own, he will let them. He will become incapable, because it's all the more easier for him to let others do for him. Some day, his mom will not be there to do for him, and wait on him, and I don't want to see him end up in the kinds of places he might just end up if he can't care for himself at all. I really hope one of his sisters will provide for him when his parents aren't around, but they aren't required to do that, nor should they be. However, I know we make that a greater possibility by giving him more skills. The less they have to do for him, the more likely they are to be able to do it.
So ends my emotional rant. It's a good thing I don't drink or smoke, because I'd be totally smashed right now if I did.