Looks like we'll have a visitor for a while (foster) - (Callie)

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    Looks like we'll have a visitor for a while (foster) - (Callie)

    I need a project.  Some of you know I've had a tough time after losing Billy.  I just plain can't fully process the grief and the best way for *me* to do that is to "help somebuddy". 

     I'm really not wanting to adopt another dog.  Being in the hospital this spring was tough and it's been a slow recovery and I've been insanely busy at work.  But it's been too hot for the dogs to do extra pet therapy & I'm still feeling at odds.

    Now we're always open **if we have room** to helping a dog who needs us but I have NOT been looking.  I just kind of leave that up to the Alpha of all Alphas and if I'm *really* supposed to get involved it will work out and be irresistible.

    I've been lurking on a Yahoo group who does some rescue transport -- but I'm only available weekends and nothing has worked yet.  However -- yesterday one of the emails just up and slapped me hard in the face.  I couldn't breathe and I said NO NO NO.  *rolling eyes*.  I caved and got some info today and tonight David and I talked it over.  It looks like it will fit for a longer-than-normal foster situation.  We can help her.  We're good at this.

    She's a blind cocker.  Probably 7-8 years old.  Hugely neglected (likely dry eye caused the blindness).  She was in a high kill shelter down in Hhollywood FL and the woman who took her to foster initially freaked when she discovered she was blind.  She's got a ton of rambunctious puppies and this girl just couldn't handle it (she was terrified and withdrew).  But the foster mom just wouldn't deal with a blind dog.  (Callie scratching head -- I can't figure that one out - but then rambunctious puppies would put me in a looney bin)

    I've got to arrange to send a scent package down where she is now (there is a temporary foster home keeping her for a couple of weeks but the woman is 7 months pregnant and needs 'out' fast) with scents from Luna, Tink, David and I and I want to get one from her so my girls can get used to her.  Then *hopefully* (if this all works) next weekend we can go meet and pick her up. 

    If we can teach her the skills scent-wise so she can get around more easily and build some self-confidence, I'd think she'd be easy to place.  I've got a perfect yard for this -- no trees to run into, high fencing all around and a ramp, not stairs immediately out the door.  The rest can be taught.  She needs confidence and a soft place to land for a while where the food is good and she'll be nurtured.  (she'll also get a good haircut LOL)

    I am OUT OF MY MIND to take another cocker.  I'm not a cocker person ... I like them but I'm not hugely in love with the breed.  I didn't even get a picture of her until late today and frankly, if she'd been a buffy coat it would have been OVER.  (I couldn't handle that) -- as a parti color?  That's just a different dog.  (and you all know I'm not a breed-person --I just like a wet nose and a tail of *some* sort).

    But blind?  I can do that -- have done it before.  But she'll be a good project for *me*.  There's no intent to 'keep' her -- it would have to be a really unique situation for that to happen.  But it will make ME feel good to help restore her confidence and help her start a new life.  So far I've not been told a name.  But this is her -- I'm told she's just a mega sweetie -- just wants to be with someone and secure. (I've been assured there is no fear aggression - I really don't want to traumatize my own girls.  This gal is just shy and scared.)

     

     

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    If anybody can make this young lady into a confident, well-loved dog it is Callie and Mr. Callie. Good Luck! Can't wait to hear about her progress in your home. She is beautiful. I love her color. Tink will have some other ears to suck on and give Luna a break.
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    Oh, she is a total cutie-pie!  She looks like one of our neighborhood doggy "nephews" -- when we first met him, I thought he was a springer mix, since I'd never seen a black and white cocker.  I bet she has a spotted belly like our nephew does! 

    I seem to remember you describing things to do with a sight-impaired dog a zillion years ago in another thread . . . using things like essential oils on baseboards and/or walls to lead the dog to their food/water bowls, the door to go outside, bedding, etc.  Is that correct, or am I just imagining that???  For some reason, that always stuck with me, and I'm thinking it was you who wrote about it!  

    I can't imagine a better place than your home for her to get the TLC and training that will make her life 1,000 times happier than it has been.  Looking forward to hearing more updates!

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    I have no doubt shes going to do great with you guys!   

    From the IMHA standpoint, OMG, another cocker! Indifferent 

    LOL, no intent to "keep" her. . .we will see about that one!Big Smile

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    That's so great, thanks for taking in this little sweetie. I know she'll make a complete turnaround with you!
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    Oh, gosh, Callie, she sure is  sweet looking.  As I was reading your post the thought kept running through my head that you need each other.  It sounds like a perfect temporary match.

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    OMG OMG OMG OMG......yup, I'm EXCITED!!!!!!!   Beautiful is an understatement but then again we all know I love cockers!  She's going to have a great life with you guys....I know it!

    willowchow

    LOL, no intent to "keep" her. . .we will see about that one!Big Smile

    hehe.....agree!!!  Not like you'll have a bunch of us twisting your arm to keep her!

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    OMG her markings look so much like my old springer Cecilia's markings! I love, love, love black and white springers--haven't seen a cocker with these markings. Yeah for Callie and Mr. Callie bringing her HOME.

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    willowchow

    From the IMHA standpoint, OMG, another cocker! Indifferent 

    yeah ... conversation at supper:

    David: "I understand why you want to do this, and yes we can surely help her ... but are you sure you want to do another cocker?"

    "No, I don't want to do another cocker.  But it was this one that got shoved in my face, that I tried to think, "NO NO NO" to, but that I know beyond a shadow of doubt that I/we are supposed to do THIS dog, so God's gotta have a reason.  But bottom line -- she's not a buffy-coat & she's an *American* cocker so it's do-able"

    "o .... K !!!"

    willowchow

    LOL, no intent to "keep" her. . .we will see about that one!Big Smile

    We haven't fostered in a few years for several reasons -- Foxy got too old to deal, and then Billy was too immune-suppressed.  We historically did a LOT of fostering - most of it longer term (to deal with some specific physical or behavioral issue).  The former teacher in me is actually good at this.  You fall in love with ALL of your students every year, but you push them and mold them into what they *can* be before they leave you and then at the end of the semester you **promote** them to the rest of their life.  That's exactly how I foster. 

    Now (and David and I have already talked about it) if a foster's health issues are SO bad that they can't reliably be placed - they'll stay.  We accept that going in.  That was why Kee Shu stayed -- the seizures were too pervasive and constant. *WE* dealt with it and were willing to spend the money but others wouldn't.  But most of all -- she turned out to be one of the *best* therapy dogs we've ever had and in the most **unlikely** form --a PEKE??  Good with **children**??  Holy Cow.

     But she was -- so we kept her easily.  But some of the best placements we've ever done were badly emotionally scarred dogs and weird behavior issues.  The last foster we did was about 8 years ago -- he was totally and completely unresponsive to human verbal commands -- his ears were *fine* but he filtered out every single thing someone SAID to him. I found out he had been a circus dog (small traveling show) -- and he'd suddenly start doing "tricks" all over the place!

     He'd been trained from puppyhood to ONLY respond to applause!!  He'd actually been *trained* not to take ANY instruction from a human by his first master.  But one time by accident I clapped my hands in delight when he did something I asked of him and he about died of happiness.  That unlocked it and we learned his chosen "reward" was applause!  He went to a family with a little girl and was her faithful companion forever more.

    *grin* We're just good at weird stuff and then finding the *right* home for this dog.  I'm never good at your typical "stay here for 3 nights til you go to another home" ... but I do like unraveling a complex problem or health issue to promote a dog to a great situation.

     And btw -- Tracy -- you're right.  I've done blind dogs before and that **IS** exactly what I do -- not so much to lead them thru the house (because they learn that "map" pretty quick).  But we'll teach scent triggers like for stairs or the 'edge' of a deck, finding doorways, etc.  And a unique scent for "her" stuff like so you can toss a ball and she can 'find' it based on scent. 

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    Good Luck, Calle !!

     

    Deb W.

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    I've been thinking for a while that I'd like us to foster for a while -- I used to do *tons* of it, and you have to be **really** careful when you do long-term stuff so you don't break the dog's heart when you place them.  But it is an incredible rush when you know some dog has incredible potential if they only had the right training to shed some issues. 

    It's not typical fostering, but it's another thing that can change lives.

    I'm just NOT good with puppies and rambunctious dogs -- but we're darned good with puzzles LOL.  But that teacher part of me needs a boost -- I'm excited.

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    This is good news, glad you are so excited. The powers that be must of known you need each other at this time.

    One of my husband friends has a pug that went blind and he thought maybe it was time ( odes has been though a lot ) I gave this friend a bunch of pointer I read ( some here I think ) and Odes is doing fine.

    Where I work, it’s a huge place with multiple green houses , pond and plants . You actually have to drive a cart to get around. Their ( the owners ) dog is blind and deaf do to age. She gets around and still greets all the customer ( we all keep an eye out for her) but I was most fascinated to see she got around by sent this season.

    If I am in a house she comes in sniffs, I am not her mom so she moves on. I enjoy watching how she maneuvers around.

    It may sound a bit mean but if she stands or lays down some where that not a good or safe spot. I walk up and poke her.

    She knows she needs to move and will let you lead her somewhere else.

    I am so glad you get do do something it sounds like you enjoy and get a personable reward from. Cant wait to read more about this girl.

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    PawMaid

    It may sound a bit mean but if she stands or lays down some where that not a good or safe spot. I walk up and poke her.

    Yeah - you can't *talk* to a deaf dog, and if they can't see you gesture you have to give them some sort of command.  A friend of mine had a blind/deaf springer (blind/deaf from birth!!) that she adopted and this dog ultimately because an AWESOME therapy dog -- the dog was so "in tune" with scent that it could tell from scent when someone was upset and just needed "love on 4 feet".      That "poke" probably identifies you to that dog better than you'd know and he knows you're just tring to get him to move. 

    We had a deaf cocker previously (not from birth -- his ears had been removed b/c of horrible infections) -- and he wound up learning like 70 sign language signs and he was DARNED good at it. 

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    More challenges!!

     *smile* -- I was emailed by the coordinator this morning -- apparently now they've decided this girl has continence issues -- "will you still take her?"

     Yes -- we will.  By the description she probably can't figure out how to tell them she has to go out.  She's not leaking -- 3 hours after a walk she made a puddle.  She can't find the door, she can't figure out when they DO know what she wants and she's confused. 

    Yep -- she's a project.  And if she IS really incontinent?  hmmm they make these wonderful things called bitches britches and human continence pads!!  But I'm betting not. 

    Maybe I need to buy a lottery ticket this week?

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    calliecritturs
    ...-- I'm excited.

    We couldn't tell.  LOL  I'm so happy for you, Callie.  Yes, I know it's a foster.  I'm simply happy to "see" you so excited.  I think you're right about the "incontinence"- it's most likely a case of missed signals or confusion.