Cita
Posted : 9/27/2010 10:54:42 AM
Tina, lol, that was my thought too!! One of my elementary school teachers (who taught the gifted classes) had that cartoon enlarged and posted on her door. Because it was a tricky one to open, and we all had a bit of trouble with it. (People are teasing me because yesterday I tried to come into the office to do work, but couldn't figure out how to use my access card to get the door open, so I had to turn around and go home!)
Deb, since vodka on the job is inappropriate, maybe some chocolate would have a similar soothing effect??
Aww, Chloe looks so happy :)
For class tomorrow, I have to "teach" an article that I just barely understand. This is sort of a general ed type class, to force us to learn things outside our specialties, so I feel like I'm totally flying blind here because I have NO background in this and we're reading very complicated, technical articles. And I have to present one in great detail, with a powerpoint and everything. Ugh. To procrastinate, I made a collage-shrine of BF and me on my cube wall. Makes the place much cheerier! BF is behaving himself much better these days, so I am happy and will put pictures of him up after all :-p
Jackie, I was thinking last night about your story about being mad at your husband and holding his hand anyway. I've been reading some relationship help books by this really famous/awesome relationship psychologist (John Gottman, if anyone's interested!) and that's exactly the sort of thing he describes as being a result of an attentive, positive relationship. And, obviously, a sign of a relationship that's very likely to succeed long-term. He talks about how interacting positively with people puts "positive tools in the toolbox," so even when you're fighting, those tools are easily accessible to defuse the tension and then even arguments can end up being a positive experience. I think that's very cool. BF is still more of the sulking type... I'm going to try to get him to read this book :)