sillysally
Posted : 12/19/2009 7:57:29 PM
jenns
sillysally
BTW--if there is anyone that knows there is no guarantee it is me. Jack has fragmented cornoid process elbow dysplasia, probably from some thing he did to himself playing (something common with FCP according to the vets) as his family was health tested and had no history. We took out a loan against DH's 401K to pay for his surgery. He had rehab for many months after the surgery. The rehab was a 4 hour round trip from our house. He had to go twice a week for a month and then once a week for many many more months. I have spent countless hours of my life researching supplements and food for him. We alter our exercising location and schedule to better suit his elbow. We drive a 2 hour round trip weekly to take him for swim therapy with a massage therapist. If we were only interested in fulfilling our "selfish human desires" we would have had Jack put down and gotten a new pup.
I don't see how making sacrifices for your breeder dog justifies buying a dog from a breeder. You could have done the same thing, spending the same amount of time and money to help an animal that needs a loving home instead of encouraging breeders to keep bringing more dogs into an already overpopulated situation by buying their puppies.
The way I see it, you had a bad experience with a breeder and now have a chip on your shoulder and now everyone who doesn't agree with you is selfish.
No, my bad experience with a breeder made me realize that my reasons for thinking I was better off with a dog from a breeder was wrong, that's all.
So because YOU made a choice about where your next dog came from based on your bad experiences anyone who makes a different choice is therefore wrong and selfish....right....I can see where this is going now.....
Jack's temperament and outlook through his ordeals has more than justified buying a dog from a good breed with a known back round. He went through painful physical therapy, frustrating crate rest, a hella ear infection where he had to go through very VERY painful (whimpering, bleeding) ear cleanings and not one sign of aggression. He hasn't once so much as raised his lip at anything we've had to do. The vet confessed to me that she was quite concerned that he would be hard to deal with due to having negative medical experiences but he LOVES the vet's office. Actually, ALL the vets who have dealt with him have been impressed with how he handled the experience. He gets along awesomely with Sally, annoys my cats but has a low enough prey drive that it goes no further than that, adores children--even obnoxious annoying children, is a peace-maker at the dog park, etc.
I went with his breed because of temperament and I went with a breeder specifically because we preferred a puppy due to the temperament of our current dog (my husband would have preferred an adult dog but we both thought Sally would adjust better the younger the dog was, and we were right), and in this area we have a lot of issue with labs with iffy temperaments-lab bites are not uncommon here. In addition, I wanted to compete in agility, etc, but the elbow thing made that out of the question.
I will not apologize for having specific expectations for a dog and therefore going with a reputable breeder whose dogs I had info on rather than going to a shelter.
Obviously, things like temperament matter a LOT more to me than they do you. My insurance doesn't allow me to have a dog that bites. One bite and we lose the insurance or we lose the dog--then try to somehow find homeowner's insurance with a pit bull mix all over again. But even if insurance were not an issue, I would NOT have a dog in my house that had bitten three people. It just would not happen.
If wanting to do right by my current dog, my current and future family, and the dog coming into my household makes me a selfish person, then I guess that's what I am
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