sillysally
Posted : 12/21/2009 7:45:48 PM
jenns
sillysally
Having a dog with a good temperament in my house is not a luxury, it is a must for any dog that comes into the house. I don't consider not putting my dog selective dog through the stress of meeting multiple adult dogs when I know that a puppy will be less stressful for her a luxury, I consider it a no-brainer.
Well just like you saId yourself in an earlier post, you didn't need to get another dog, you wanted one. Therefore, nothing about your situation was a necessity. Your dog is not the one deciding to bring a new animal in the house. Based on your description of Sally and her tendecy to experience stress around other dogs, and the fact that you said you wanted a dog to do agility with, it sounds to me like you got another dog for yourself. It IS a luxury that we can all pick and choose from numerous different types of dogs, all different shapes, sizes and temperments to find one that suits our particular lifestyles, whims and desires. Like buying a car. Heck, I consider a luxury that we can share our lives with dogs at all!
Anyone who gets a dog is doing it at least for partially selfish reasons, even those who rescue. I don't know one person who is like, "You know what, I can't stand dogs and am really irritated by THIS dog in particular, but I'm going to give it a home anyway, 'cause I'm just like that." People who rescue animals do so because they have an interest in them. I rescued Sally and an Off the Track Standardbred gelding. I was not looking for either a dog or a horse at the time (I actually REALLY could not afford the horse), but they were both in situations that were not good ones--Sally needed a home and Snafu needed to not be sold to the Amish and run into the ground. It was definitely good for them that I did that--Sally is right next to me trying to figure out how to torment the cat without being caught and Snafu was recently given to a home where they spoil him rotten and he has his own 11 year old boy. HOWEVER, I would be either a liar or delusional if I said that they were completely selfless acts. I love dogs and had grown up with and loved horses. If they had been homeless snakes, things likely would have ended up differently.
No our decision to get a second dog was not entirely for Sally, but she did factor into it. Because she is iffy about strange dogs she can't really be taken to daycare or the dog park and I don't really have "doggy" friends, so no playdates. However, she really seemed to enjoy canine social interaction. That, combined with the fact that yes, I did *gasp* want another dog (I know, how dare I actually want a dog), and it was the right time in our lives led us to getting Jack.
However, the decision to get a puppy from a breeder rather than an adult dog from some sort of rescue/rehome situation was based entirely on Sally's temperament. I guess THAT is what p!sses me off the most about you posts (other than PETA rhetoric, that is). We would have had NO problem getting a young adult dog, we even looked at a couple in the shelter (one that would have been a really good agility prospect), looked on rescue sites, DH definitely preferred an adult, etc. In the end we decided, for the reasons stated repeatedly, that a pup would be the best bet, and if we got a pup, I wanted one from a breeder so I could be more sure of the temperament.
This is not called being a selfish luxury seeker, THIS is called being a responsible dog owner, something I will NOT apologize for and do not regret for a second. No good ever comes from close-mindedness.
I have some Christmas shopping to do at Big R's and I'm taking the furry little symbol of my luxury mongering with me. Other than that, I'm done with this thread.
Jack: because a furry, in-home satellite dish is a luxury....