miranadobe
Posted : 11/27/2009 11:51:25 AM
spiritdogs
My best friend asked me to say a native prayer before the meal after their Christian grace, I think to acknowledge that Mike and I would have done that at our own table, in recognition of what our ancestors would have been thankful for, yet remembering soberly all that was lost, and knowing I would miss our family tradition. She has always been such a blessing to me, more than she will ever know!
That is really lovely... considering the origins of Thanksgiving, I'd think as an observer it would have been a special gift to those in attendance, too.
Meanwhile, my sister is, in fact, a nut-job. We had no company... yet a GIANT feast - the 20lb turkey, truly, just for the two of us. My mom mailed us doughboys (a traditional family recipe item) which take a long time to prepare. When I saw those arrived on Weds, I knew for sure she wouldn't have gone through the trouble to make and mail them if she was going to arrive for the holiday.
Maggiesmommy, I'm sorry about your crummy Thanksgiving. Did he at least bring you any leftovers? Make your fiance buy you replacement tupperware if his sister doesn't return it.
I am working today... so I'd better get stuff done so I can leave early with the rest of the crew.