Bonita of Bwana
Posted : 5/3/2008 10:32:57 AM
calliecritturs
No it's just plain cheating -- whether it's the 'ultimate' because it's as far as they 'go' or because it's the beginning of where they go ... it's .... cheating!
Could not agree more. It boggles my mind the way folks try to justify what makes them feel good or happy. " I went on line because I was lonely and poured my heart out to a stranger... but that isn't cheating." or " We were drinking and got silly ...it didn't mean anything" YES it Does!! Once you are in a relationship , and no I don't care if it is backed up by a wedding or if it is common law YOU made a choice to work through things with this ONE person. If it isn't or can't work than fine, end it. But as long as you are in the relationship you put your energy, emotions and finances into THAT PERSON. Anything else is cheating. I will not ever see it differently. People don't want to admit they are either wrong or need to end relationships , being alone is really scary for people today. So instead they hang on to the illusion and cheat by looking for the next better thing. I am raising my grandkids to not tolerate this concept, If you can't be true to yourself you can never be true to others.
Bonita of Bwana