calliecritturs
Posted : 12/6/2006 11:59:46 PM
tashakota, there have been times where I've learned more about myself and more about how to do a job WELL by leaving than I have any other time.
For MANY reasons, stay your time out.
1. First off, it's right before Christmas and it's impossible (darned near) to find anything.
2. Most importantly, you have spent several months trying to repair what you screwed up on. Honestly, people WILL have noticed that.
The biggest thing you need out of these folks, aside from a month's pay, is A GOOD reference.
Whatever the reason they've let you go, it wasn't horrible or you would have been gone like yesterday. So use the next weeks/days to make yourself look absolutely AWESOME in their eyes. Because it is more common that when a person knows their time is limited they just slack off.
BUT, it will say all sorts of wonderful things about your personal integrity if you pour out your best effort just because you want to see the job finished properly. Not for any 'gain' other than to do a job well.
And frankly that gets noticed. And when you go elsewhere you can use these people with pride as a reference. "The job just wasn't a fit for me, but they seemed to like me -- please call them".
THAT gets you another job way easier than "oh, please don't call them".
Personal integrity is rather uncommon in many places today -- but it is still your most valuable asset.
I've been screwed over many times in the past but how you 'exit' tells people a ton about your personality. In fact, the job I have today I got because one of the partners at the last place I worked really thought I got "the shaft" in a bad way -- but he also had seen me go way above and beyond "the call of duty" many, many times in the past (including another job where another employee simply knifed me in the back because it suited her at the time, but to this day it is ME who has the good relationship with the former boss). When I was temping for my present boss, he *knew* this other attorney and asked me and the other guy said (and I'm SO proud I can actually put this in quotes):: "YES, if you hire her she'll do a good job and she WILL watch your back!!" To a sole proprietor it was the best recommendation anyone could ever have given me.
I've always figured I was above taking the easy way out -- that does no one any 'good' and it makes you exactly what they thot you were when they decided to give the job to someone else. But honestly being able to speak well of prior employers is the best thing to recommend YOU.