ron2
Posted : 1/3/2009 8:15:31 PM
spiritsmom
I don't recall the last time my dogs had any kind of fight and when the two I have did fight, it was a little growling and snapping. That's as far as it went.
Actually, that bit of info, right there, helps a lot. Those were warnings, rather than escalations. They were setting ground rules with each other.
I've read that males will often fight or snap once and then, having established social boundaries, are content with that. That females social boundaries can be more fluid. And that it is not uncommon for a female to be the lead, alpha, big cheese, whatever.
Shadow's friend when he was a puppy was a JRT named Duke. Shadow was 4 times his size with speeds of over 30 mph and he followed Duke. There was no possible way in heck that Duke could ever overpower or "alpha roll" Shadow. In fact, when playing, Shadow could swing a paw and knock Duke over. He let Duke eat out of his food bowl. Duke could lead because Shadow followed.
Also, dog society can be fluid. One prefers to enter the door first but the other can have whatever comfy sleeping spot.