I think this is the most appropiate forum - but mods please move if you feel it is best elsewhere.
To those who already know, Ari is STILL play biting. In the beginning we did the old fashion method the breeder told us to do, but it was tearing me up inside (it's basically an alpha roll), and we called in a trainer for an emergency session. That was when she was around 13 weeks I want to say? His advice was social isolation in a very very boring room. Because Ari will find fun ANYWHERE. You yelp loudly, she gets more playful and bitey. So now we do a loud sharp OWWW, scoop her up and she gets put in the downstairs closet. This is working the best, but some nights she's unbelievable. We work daily on training sessions to work her mind, she has interactive toys (she's fed out of a buster cube, and before that a busy buddy bottle), and plenty of exercise (at least I feel so given she is still growing and developing). She's next to impossible to redirect when she gets bitey. SOMETIMES I can redirect her by giving a sit up command (when she's down in the play bow ready to jump and bite me) and then another down, and I can break into an improv training session - but this is NOT the norm by any means. Ari DOES respect other dogs body language and correction and will instantly change her obnoxious behavior to a more appropiate one, but us humans imitating dogs is out of the question. She doesn't even care when she's bit me so hard I'm crying and OBVIOUSLY in pain. She bites hard enough that she will one of these days puncture through skin. NOTHING she does is aggressive however, she's obviously attempting to play with us - and doesn't care what type of attention she gets as long as it is something. BUT this is not behavior that can be ignored to extinction- it's painful and dangerous.
I am getting VERY good at reading her and can more often than not anticipate a play biting session before it begins. This helps, but I don't know if there is more we should be doing? At this point the SO and I are beyond frustrated. I sit in my car (on days she doesn't come to work with me) for up to 10-15 minutes doing deep breathing to calm myself trying to think that today will be the day she GETS IT. My SO today has had to put her in time out no less than half a dozen times before noon (he's home today), I put her in once this morning myself.
I really cannot believe that we are STILL working on this. It's been a problem since she was 10 weeks old, and now at 6 mos. all her adult teeth are in and my SO and I find ourselves at times rather being at work than with her - which is saddening.
So if ANYONE has any suggestions - even if it's just a keep at it (which we are!) please I'm all ears. I love the munchkin but I'd love her even more if I didn't feel so frustrated, and at times even cringing when she starts playing nicely with me (aka brings me a toy).
Some things I've started doing more of:
NILF based attention - now that she has more commands under her, even a simple pat from me comes with behaviors she needs to be doing (usually just a sit) and I give attention on my terms not when she wants it (but believe me I call her over frequently!). I am going to up this for other "privileges" in the house like the couch (she's allowed on but starting to act obnoxious about it lately).
Formal Obedience training: She's now enrolled in private obedience with a trainer. He's a GREAT guy, very calm manner and both the SO and I like him a lot.
Some things that don't work with Ari:
Shaker cans - they are great fun let me tell you!
Spray bottles - even more fun!
Any type of negative attention - even a sharp no causes her to get more excited and riled up.
Things that WON'T work for the humans :)
-Simply ignoring biting behavior - it's far too painful. I should take pictures of my bruises sometime....ugh.
-Any type of judgment - I beat myself up enough over this *wry grin*