DPU
Posted : 7/11/2008 11:21:00 PM
luvmyswissy
What I want to know DPU is what do you do in the beginning BEFORE you get this special relationship that you have with the dogs. Lets say your new foster is a counter-surfing, jumping on you fool do you allow it? Do you redirect it? Do you stop it? Do you manage the dog and crate it?
I have never encountered these behavior from the get go...even though I have an open 40lbs bag of Blue kibble sitting in a corner of the kitchen. On the counter top is red box of milkbone, their denal bones, bread, crackers, etc. Since there is no problem from the get go, I have nothing to do. The question should be why are other people's dogs doing this?
At night on day one when the new dog comes into the house and the new foster decides to dig in your garbage do you yell? Do you pull him out? Do you just let him satisfy his need? At some point you must have to jump in a place a boundary long before the dog had a relationship with you or before you have figured out the dogs needs. Or for some magical reason when you feed this dog his dinner and satisfy his basic need for food he doesn't go in the garbage or counter surf from day one?
Same answer, never encountered this. By the nighttime of day one, the new foster wants to be part of the group and they don't leave the room that I and the pack are in....no barriers are in place. And yes, I focus on the dog's needs and give special focus on the dog's most pronounced issue.
There has to be something you do that stops, redirects or tell these dogs NO. It can't just be a free for all - unless you lock them away during these times I don't understand.
Only aggression related to resource guarding. The dog quickly learns on its own there is no need to resource guard if the needs are satisfied or more than satisfied.
I do understand what your saying but in all the time I have been a member and reading your logic I can never grasp "the gap" between the time you get these dogs and develop this relationship you state is needed to stop it? I don't think boundaries are negative maybe the way some people go about applying boundaries can be negative but a simple redirection or alternative behavior asked isn't and without such a protocol what do YOU do?
To me, the dog has to be ready for training otherwise the relationship building takes a huge step backwards. Boundaries applied by some people are simply negating behavior they created. The question should be what are these people doing to create these behaviors.
Let's say Leslie's dog came to at your house and jumped on everyone when they entered how do you bridge the gap between when you figure out this dogs "needs" . You implied that Leslie should fulfill the dogs needs and the jumping will stop, well.. until you can figure that out (which I don't understand how you do that) what would you do with that behavior? Do let them jump on people? Do you lock them in another room and not allow them to see your guests? If you are allowing the dog to socialize you must stop or redirect that behavior somehow?
New dogs come to my house on the weekend and I usually try to have just me and the dogs there. But people do come over to see the new dog. I swear, I have not seen any of these foster dogs jump on people. If I had such a problem I would probably create a thread asking for ideas....like I always do.....but it does not happen. Lesjie should try and determine why the dog is doing this and then work on a resolve. Ignorng or modifying one normal behavior to accomodate this behavior is just not going to work.....the root of the problem has to be identified and then addressed.