kpwlee
Posted : 6/28/2008 3:28:06 PM
Dog_ma
And you hafta have a sense of humor when your dog does!
well ain't tht the truth
Lies it took stinkin' ages to get a good recall with Bugsy - I worked and worked and worked. Had to change the command, he isn't food driven so the roast beef didn't override a good romp, and tried everything I could. At first was really down about it because I thought my God I can't even get this dog to want to come back to me.
Then I realized that he wanted to come back - just after he was done with what he was doing. And we have had him since he as about 3 - 3.5 mos old.
I realized last year that it was better than I thought it was when he and a new found friend took a romp from the B&B we were staying at. DH watched them go and then yelled to me that they were off - I stifled my urge to kill DH and shouted at the top of my lungs my command (if DH says this Bugs doesn't return they had to work on their own thing) and we saw the tall grass stop moving and then it started moving towards us. My boy was hurtling back at warp speed which brought his new buddy back too. I was downright amazed.
He still has his moments though and there is always a hesitation. Wheels spinning should I or shouldn't I?
In class he pulled on his leash like an untrained wild dog when we entered for the first few weeks, and when we would go to work outside and ..... But he got it. And interestingly is recall outside with the others doing their thing was stunning. I am sure the instructor was considering tossing our butts out and then saw that once he decided to work he was way advanced of the others.
Bugsy will be 3 in early September. Coke is still a puppy. I really saw an improvement after 2.5.
As for the bullying, its difficult. Bugsy's girlfriend a GR is terribly submissive (she and B grew up together and she is fine with him now but they had to work it out) and it is very difficult for her with other dogs. She trusts B totally now and they play full on but add another dog and she rolls instantly and has been harassed. Justin's owners need to work on his confidence as much as you need to learn how to redirect Coke or help him to learn to play with softer dogs, which I know you will do.
As others have said sometimes dogs just don't click and are best left separate. Bugsy gets along with dogs of all sizes, ages, breeds, sex etc but one incident stills boggles our minds. Must be nearly a year ago we (DH, Bugsy & I) were walking on a trail with a friend and his welsh terrier (who is extrremely social like Bugsy). Someone had a boxer in front of us and this boxer kept turning around and staring at us. This happened a bunch of times and then it did it again and Bugsy went off (his version) he gave the meanest grrrr woof he has ever done and lunged. I had the leash and was taken completely off guard. i corrected him and we walked on - the boxer never turned around again and that was that. We were a good 30 yds apart and I am so glad it wasn't closer. That is the ONLY time he has barked at a dog or with another dog around. Whatever was going on that dog and Bugsy would've had a scrap were they closer. It was so out of character for Bugsy, it is still something we discuss. To me it is a stark example of the fact that we aren't dogs so we don't get all that they communicate and like Meg said some dogs aren't ever going to get along. It would be interesting to let him meet another male golden and see how that goes.
Good luck, keep trying, and I assure you he will get it.