willowchow
Posted : 6/30/2008 12:26:39 AM
Copied from above---Again, I will ask. What exactly do you do to get the results you want? You mentioned what your goals are but what do you do to get there? For example, you want Pags to come and she won't. Now what? Do you do something to get her to come? Do you just say, OK Pags you don't have to come because I don't want to cause you any stress? What?? I really want to know. You seem to have much experience.
OK, for example, Willow was very food aggressive when she came here. I was having issues putting the food down without her coming toward it and that was causing a safety issue for me. So, with NILIF she is already in a sit, I then put the food down, I tell her to stay--this is two commands for one thing--Willow has a tough life---I back away, then tell her "OK". She is in control and I am safe.
Another example--She likes to run off our steps on our deck. I make her "sit", then I go down the stairs first, then tell her "OK" and she follows. This way, no pulling me down a bunch of wood steps.
There are so many little things we do that I make her do stuff like that for. It's not every single time anymore like when she first got here but pretty often throughout the day.
There are things she does get for free like water, attention, her beds. That's why I don't see it as depriving her of the basic necessities as you say, it's really just extra's that she's working for. Or, in our special case, my safety.