Dog_ma
Posted : 2/4/2008 11:23:54 AM
LOL LOL LOL. I kick my kid. Really, I do! Not in a mean way. She loves to wrestle, she has a high need for physical stimulation, and she thinks it is HILARIOUS when I (lightly) kick her. I'm sure I've done it in public, because I don't think of it as something bad. I will also block her with my feet, or nudge her to get her attention.
Like I will with a dog who doesn't find it threatening.
I don't think I would use my feet or legs on a dog I didn't know well, because I wouldn't know if the dog had prior bad experience with feet or didn't like much touch, but I do use my feet on Sasha all the time and she is fine with it. Sasha is picky about how she is touched, and I don't handle her in ways she dislikes. Not with my feet, hands, or whatever. The only exception being that I have been working for a long time on hug-desensitization, to reduce the chance that she bites some fool kid who manages to slip past me and grab her. She doesn't like being hugged by me, but she isn't freaked out by it either and she is growing increasingly comfortable with it.
I don't think the actual body part matters. It is how it is used, and how it is perceived by the one being touched.
Dogslife, I think you are being a wee bit judgmental about parents and kids. Some parents yell too much, and that's no good, but even the gentlest of parents loses it and yells sometimes. I always like to give a stranger the benefit of the doubt, that this was a bad day etc.
I try not to pick my child up against her will unless I absolutely have to. "Have to" for me means safety, or the preservation of other people's rights. But I won't pick her up just because she's dawdling and we're late. She finds it violating to be picked up against her will.