glenmar
Posted : 1/5/2008 6:45:13 PM
One would hope that your wife has a CHOICE in where she walks. I sure hope you don't ask her to walk a step or two BEHIND you!
Muds observation about the dogs in a field is quite accurate in my experience. My dogs are pretty equal in their energy levels, despite the age differences, but Tyler is almost always out front. And the whole bunch of them are close together, sometimes two abreast, but more often, single file. I do notice on extended walks, or through particularly deep snow, that the lead dog will change more frequently.
MY defination of "leader" doesn't involve a series of petty activities designed to establish or keep establishing myself. My dogs generally do go through the door first....I prefer it that way. But, I do ask for a sit first, and that isn't done to "establish my leadership"....that's simply a safety issue. They NEED to be calm before going out the door so that I don't end up stampeeded by six large dogs. I also ALWAYS send them down stairs ahead of me. Again, this is a safety issue for me. I'm far too clumsy to be accidently bumped into by a dog and go rolling down the stairs....and I've had too much stuff broken and damaged (on my body) already! I guess, my defination of leadership is much the same as my defination of Mom....to love them no matter what, to guide, to mold, to teach and encourage, to help them to be the very best that they can be and to take care of all their needs. I suppose that calling them back to me or asking them to wait when we are out in the woods could be seen as an attempt to control, but I simply think of it as a way to insure their safety.