FourIsCompany
Posted : 1/3/2008 11:40:51 AM
Chuffy
So hang on (here comes the perplexed bit) - so with most dogs it doesn't MATTER if they see themselves as leader?
CM's premise: MANY behavioral problems result because of lack of "leadership" (or whatever you want to call it). In other words, many people don't give their dogs what the dogs need in terms of exercise and/or structure, but give plenty of affection and really kind of "spoil" the dog. Then, when the owner asks something of them (like walk nicely on a lead) the dog says, "Heck no. I'll walk how I want to walk. YOU are the one who needs to change." And the truth is, he's right! The owner needs to change. The owner needs to provide the dog with exercise and structure in order to let the dog know what is expected of him. A dog is much happier when he gets the proper exercise and knows what is expected of him.
Dogs are different. Speaking generally, some dogs, depending on their 'person'ality, see any human being as a leader and never have any behavioral problems. These are generally your more submissive dogs. (That's not to say that submissive dogs never have behavioral problems, I'm speaking generally.) Others, are "not so submissive".
And if there's a clear lack of leadership, the dog will fill the void by making the rules. Somebody's got to say how things are done. It's not (as is sometimes said) that every dog is waiting around for that one opportunity to take over the household. That's just silly. But some dogs (like Jaia) are pretty darn pushy and constantly ask, "What's in it for me"? These kind of dogs, without "leadership" (or whatever you want to call it) can be "behaviorally challenged" dogs. They can become a real PITA.
So, it's not about "most dogs", it's just that if a person has a dog who is "behaviorally challenged", there is most likely a need that isn't being met by the owner. And if they provide "leadership" by applying the dreaded "exercise, discipline and affection" model, we usually see these dogs flourish and become MUCH more well-behaved and happy. It's not about cracking a whip as some people seem to think. It's about giving the dog what he needs.
So, should all dogs see their owners as "leaders". Sure. A leader provides for needs and guides those he cares about. That's a good thing. Do all dogs see their owners as leaders? No. Some pee on their owner's leg. Some pull them around on walks. Some BITE their owners. These dogs are not being provided with what they need. And it's up to the owner to step up and take care of (lead) their dog. If you're not having any behavioral issues with your dog, chances are he sees you as the "leader" (in this context) and knows that you will provide for his needs and take care of him.
Chuffy
Can a blind person be an adequate "leader" in the dogs eyes?
You should know the answer to this bizarre (better than the first word I was thinking of) line of questioning now.