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Posted : 12/20/2007 12:23:23 AM
Chuffy
I'm a bit funny about spiders and I can tell you that "flooding" me would NOT help. I'd just start to resent the person doing the flooding.
Have you tried it? Flooding might help, have him on a leash and turn on the oven (if some poeple think that her dog might bite her because is not able to scape then tie the leash to something) the dog might flip out from 20 seconds to 5 minutes but after that he will realize he is still there with no injuries, he might look at YOU to see how you react to it, if he sees that you dont give too much importance to the oven he will start to follow your example
Psychologist Alice Clearman explains why flooding even in humans works so well:
"Flooding is all about reinforcement in the brain. Whenever we engage in an habitual behavior in response to something we fear, we reinforce that fear. If we are afraid of spiders and back away from them, we reinforce that fear. Imagine a great fear of spiders. You see one in your bedroom, you run out of there and get someone else to kill it, or spray pesticide in your room or call the pest control company. I have known one person who refused to sleep in her bedroom for 3 months after seeing a spider there!
The way it works is that they become more and more anxious as they approach the feared object or situation. In the case of spiders, if i'm afraid of them and i have to kill one, i become more and more afraid as i approach it. Maybe i have a shoe in my hand, poised to smash the creature. My heart is pounding, my pulse is racing, i'm almost hyperventilating, im terrified! i get closer and closer, sweating and i suddenly decide that i cant handle it! i turn away and run out of the room, calling the neighbor to come and kill the spider. The moment i run away how am i feeling? Relieved! My pulse slows and my breathing returns to normal. I wipe my brow with a shaking hand "whew that was close"
Look at what i did to my brain, i had increasing anxiety as i drew closer and closer to the spider. Then i decided i could not do it and i fled the scene having an enormous sense of relief. That relief, that feeling, was a reward. I rewarded myself for fleeing from the spider, I have taught myself, quite literally my brain, that spiders are indeed very dangerous creatures, i know this because of the feeling of relief i had when i left. The result is that i actually increased my fear. I have made myself a little bit more afraid of spider every time i exit"
The difference between dogs an humans when it comes to phobias says Dr Clearman is that humans attach thought, imagination, memory and anticipation of their fears. Dogs do not do these things; they live in the moment, giving them a huge advantage over us in overcoming fears and phobias
Dr Clearman says that the treatment for spider phobias is to have the client having a spider on his skin until he is no longer afraid. The fearful person starts by talking to a therapist who can asses the degree of fear but the treatment is always the same, It can be done in short stints over a longer period of time or just in one session. Flooding has been used by psychologists for about 30 years. Dr Clearman explains that the mountains of research that have been done on it continue to prove that its very, very effective
When a dog overcomes his phobia himself they become self empowered, increasing their self esteem and affecting other areas of their lifes as they feel stronger, more comfortable and happier
Remember, this is the opinion of a Psychologist, not just any regular guy who just "assumes" what is going to happen