kaf
Posted : 12/20/2007 5:19:16 PM
Kayjin used to be petrified of the oven, when we first got him. When we would turn it on he would run upstairs and hide in the bedroom. My FI would always coddle him during this time, which I think made it worse. I think Kayjin kind of thought, well if Daddy is hugging and gushing over me there MUST be something really scary going on.
I too think that Kayjin's fear was connected to the fire alarm that goes off occasionally. He hears the scary noise and then Mommy and Daddy jump up and frantically start flailing and waving things in the air. So to Kayjin I think he linked a WHOLE bunch a badness together, Oven=Fire alarm= Mommy and Daddy acting like psychos.... poor Kayjin!
We started sending him to bed (his bed in the living room) before turning the oven on. FI stopped coddling him, Just a quick "its ok Cage" . Once he was on his bed... a safe place he would get treats. The bed is not too far from the kitchen, we have an open floorplan so the bed in the living room, is basically right next to the kitchen. After he became comfortable with going to his bed while the oven was on. I would make sure I always had tasty high value yummies in the kitchen ready if he wanted to check things out. I let him do this on his own. Slowly he would follow his brother in the kitchen to check out what Snuffa was munching on.
Now he comes into the kitchen on his own while I'm cooking. We have a big over sized chair in the kitchen... this is where he usually sits now. Its far enough away from the oven, but close enough that he can make sure he is not missing out on any good treats!
He still doesn't LOVE the oven... but he doesn't think its going to eat him anymore either!