Ixas_girl
Posted : 12/3/2007 10:37:47 AM
Chuffy
I Used to HATE having my hair brushed by
my mum. It didn't make her a scary person, I just made a fuss when I
had my hair done and then tings were fine afterwards - we moved on.
But if my mum had pulled a gun on me? Different story. And how do you
know that ISN'T how the dog could see it?
mudpuppy
well, let's think about how the dog MIGHT interpret it, whether using the real alpha roll or the new-age touchy feely method of holding the dog on his side.
Yes, when it comes to physically handling dogs, the emotional anthropomorhizing is at it's peak. It seems to be taken for granted that we already do many things to our dogs which may seem/feel quite dangerous/threatening:
disperse kibble in a bowl
collars / leashes / harnesses
locked doors and gates / fences / kennels / crates
grooming
vet /dentist visits
obedience
etc.
Rather than imagine what kinds of treatment MIGHT result in which kind of presumed "emotional damage", why not just "ask the dog"? (Reasoning that the dog's being trained to dislike laying on her side is theoretical hogwash, and doesn't bear out in practice.) You're welcome to come put Ixa on her side, so you can see for yourself what the result is. Oh, but you and I will practice on each other first, calmly ... I don't want anyone handling my dog improperly or emotionally.