glenmar
Posted : 10/19/2007 6:48:56 AM
Well, after 19 pages, I'll venture back. First off, I will admit that I've avoided this thread for a couple reasons......my notifications are very iffy and I'm too busy to go looking most of the time, and, in my own experience, Behavior is not a great place to be. However, I'm impressed with this thread.
I will be the first to admit that I don't "get" all the hoopla about CM. I don't get NG and with dialup, I really can't watch the clips. When I have watched some at work, well, I haven't been impressed. In the past I have asked honest questions in an effort to understand, and have usually been ridden out of Behavior on a rail. This is not to say, however, that I have stopped reading, or stopped trying to learn. I still don't "get" CM.
Yes, he has done a great job of raising awareness that Hello? All dogs need training so that they never, ever GET to the red zone stage. I have said many times and I'll say again, if owners did their job in the first place, there would be no need for CM or others like him. Owners need to accept responsibility for the life they've brought into their home and stop being so danged lazy.
From what I have read, including his books, and what little I've actually seen, I still don't understand the why with a normal family dog. And based on that, what the heck can I take away?
I have a pretty steady string of fosters in and out of my home. Some are pretty wild, undertrained and undersocialized. They take a lot of effort to manage. But, with my own, or with fosters, I've never felt the need to poke, roll, pin or otherwise be physical with a dog. Do I use touch? Darn straight, but it's the flat of my palm on the neck or withers generally. I absolutely hate choke chains, and I'm ashamed of myself that I ever resorted to a prong with Thor......I've learned to teach loose leash walking and heel with a long line and it's ever so much more effective FOR ME. Most of the fosters I get are german shepherds so we aren't talking about small dogs.
I've never seen the value of flooding. I know how I would feel if someone decided to "help" me overcome my fear of snakes by forcing exposure, and while a dog doesn't function in the same mental capacity as a person, I can't see inflicting that kind of horrible fear on any creature. Fear is fear and I'm sure not going to make it worse. It's so much easier and safer to slowly desensitize an animal to whatever s/he fears in the first place, and to teach them that there isn't really anything to be afraid of. And, actually, that's actually worked a little with me.....while I'm still not eager to go into the garage where I know snakes WERE living and may still BE living, I can do it if I absolutely need to. I still put shoes on to go outside, but I will walk in the yard again.
While I don't "hate" CM, I admit to finding some of his followers a bit fanatical, and I see no need for a link for each and every problem that's posted regardless of what it is. Nor do I take "any opportunity to seek him out and discredit him", but perhaps what I've just said will help others to understand why I am not a fan. And, I will say that SOME CM supporters have made a sincere effort to try and help me to understand what I did not, just to be completely fair. On the whole though, it often seems that CM supporters are so darned defensive that they don't want to answer an honest question. That's just my honest opinion and I surely don't want to cause problems in what has been a really NICE thread.
I don't think that I'm being closed minded, although perhaps I am.