nfowler
Posted : 10/14/2006 9:20:23 AM
You know, the funny thing is, I bumped into my more, how do I say it, forceful instructor and told him and I could tell, by his face, that he would not have recommended doing what I did. He would have wanted me to have grabbed his collar and forced him off. I could just see it in his face, though he kept quiet.
But Murphy is my disabled dog, and I'm not sure, to this day, that he was being "aggressive" with me by growling. I think he worries a lot about his body, where it's positioned, and about being hurt, and I couldn't see myself making it worse for him. I don't want to hurt him and I don't want to make him worry more than he's already spent his crappy life before me worrying--he came to me unsocialized and untrained and worried about Number One (himself and his disability) and I figured out, after I left the room in a panic, that he wasn't saying, "I'm the boss of your bed," he was saying, "I don't want to get down and I am afriad of your grabbing my collar." Truth be known, I'm not very physical with him, which was the catalyst for moving beyond that

hysical training we were in. Might be "fine" with a normal dog, but it's not OK with a disabled one and after The Incident, I needed to do more than just pull him around for the rest of his life.
So true, Anne, it can be that simple, and without really knowing your dog, and really wanting to know your dog, it can so easily turn. That could have been so darn ugly. Instead, he's happy to comply EVERY single time I ask him. His tail wags, he smiles, and it's over and done with.
That clicker is amazing. I wrote my instructor not long ago and told her that I'm learning to think differently and learning to see differently and that clicker has changed my life and also his.
I'm so happy. I'm a different person than the one who posted right after The Incident back in July.