Edie
Posted : 10/15/2006 10:46:31 PM
that you have well behaved dogs without using any other methods but +R and we should all do the same and avoid damaging our dogs.
But so have i,i dont think i have ever punished my dogs for anything.Like Glenda,i'm not quite sure what it is i have done with my dogs,but whatever it was it has worked.I just cant fathom using pain or discomfort to make a dog do what you want it to.My dogs would love the chance to run after wildlife if given the chance,but all i've ever had to do was say "ah-ah" in a firm voice.Sometimes i'll let them chase the ducks down at the pond,but they'll look to me first for more or less permission,if you can call it that.
I'm a firm believer in easy going owners make for easy going dogs.High strung owners usually have high strung dogs,loud mouths most often have yappy,snappy dogs. Owners should take an
honest look within before trying to figure out why their dogs do the things they do,has some of their personality rubbed off onto their dogs?,and if they have to resort to shock tactics or feel they need to inflict pain,stand over tactics or discomfort on to their dogs then IMHO they're doing something wrong.
For me,raising dogs wasnt much different to raising my kids,i used more or less the same strategies.I smacked my kids(never smacked my dogs) a few times before realising that they then didnt do as i asked out of respect,but out of fear of being punished,i dont think dogs think too differently to children in that respect. I also didnt want to use crates for my dogs,only on an as needed basis for the first weeks at home with me,and for the past 20 or so years i havnt needed to crate any of my dogs past the initial house training period.My dogs never see a collar and lead unless we are walking to our destination where they are let off asap,or when we go for a rare visit to the vet,and yet they dont pull or lunge and yet they've never been "trained"
to walk on a leash.I like to think my dogs are easy going and laid back,because i am and this transfers on to them,i've had dogs of all different breeds and sizes over the years,and the methods i use,kindness,patience,and a big sense of humour really do work.The thought of using aversive/negative methods has never,ever crossed my mind,for me a gentle leader would be about as aversive as i'de ever get.
I've met loads of dogs who's owners have used negative training methods on their dogs,like strangling them on choker chains,pulling them around,shock collars,scruffing etc etc and you can almost see the lack of spirit and life in these dogs eyes.Compared to the dogs who have had nothing but kind methods used,the difference really is obvious [&:]