ORIGINAL: Awsomedog
ORIGINAL: Ratsicles
1. Shove dog into the desired position with alot of rudeness and force, repeat command over and over, toss some treats at them.
2. Retreive dog from other room after it wanders off from boredom and confusion.
3. Shove dog back into position, yell commands louder this time, stomp around in frustration.
4. Repeat steps 1-3.
5. Quit.
That is no type of training I would ever use, and I mean never.
And I believe that was the point of my post...that I was a horrible trainer. I had read many traditional dog training books, gotten advice from everyone I know...and it didn't really click for me. I don't know why, but I always felt completely unsure of what I supposed to do and how I was supposed to make them understand. The whole point was that clicker training, like I said, filled in the blanks for me. It made things easy and opened alot of doors for me and my dogs that I felt were previously locked due to my lack of ability.
To be honest, your insanely rude posting style is the reason I stay out of most training discussions. You are beyond ridiculous in the way you convey your messages, and it makes me wonder how you must relate to the dogs you train. Get off your high horse and stop being so incredibly rude to everyone. I doubt I'm the only one who avoids the training forums due to your rudeness. If you respond to any of my posts in the future, know that my ignoring you is NOT due to me not having a response, or thinking that you are in any way right. I simply will not respond to someone who refuses to be civil.
Seems to me that if you are so against clicker training, you could stay the heck off the clicker training forum, eh?
Anyway, on to the actual discussion...
Ratsicles, I'm curious. Before you started clicker training, did you think your dogs were unhappy or "shut down"? If so, was that what made you try it? And, if not, do you now think that there is a distinct difference in their demeanor today that tells you that they might not have been as happy before?
I guess what I'm trying to figure out, as a trainer, is how to convey the lightbulb moment to people. What did it look like for you?
I don't think they were unhappy in general. They seemed to be happy dogs...I had a good relationship with all of them, they looked at me as their leader, we had fun together, etc. I wasn't
mean or even unfair with them...I just refrained from teaching them any more than I thought I had to for them to be reasonably well behaved. I knew what a poor trainer I was and didn't want to subject them to it any more than I had to.
Were they unhappy during training? Yes. When they knew a training session was about to take place, they sat meekly in front of me, heads down, ears back, foreheads wrinkled. They wanted SO much to understand what I was trying to get across, and I was never able to teach it. I would get so frustrated I'd have to leave the room and stomp around for a while. They always got upset because they thought I was angry with them, when really I was just frustrated with myself.
I do think that they were shut down. Changes started taking place back in October when I got Ogre. Prior to that the only way I knew how to train was using lots of force. Ogre wouldn't stand for it...if I went too far, he would lie down, eyes glazed, and refuse to budge until I got my act together. He has been a GREAT teacher and my training style did improve greatly once I had to figure out something other than force and yelling that would work. Still, I wasn't particularly good at getting my point across, I was just much nicer about it. My dogs remained for the most part, confused, and didn't enjoy training.
I had been tossing around ideas for other types of training in my head, but I really thought clicker training seemed too good to be true and I never really seriously considered it. Then, the other day, I walked into Petsmart and someone from their training program walked up and handed me a free clicker. They were promoting their obedience classes, and handing them out. So I thought, "What the heck," went home, looked up the basics of clicker training online, and started with Ogre. By the end of the first session I was almost reduced to tears.
Our training started out as it usually did....he sat there, realized what was coming, and sighed heavily. I started charging the clicker, and that got him insterested. He perked up, and after a few seconds, started nosing the clicker every time. He realized that the clicker meants treats. By this time he was watching my intently...and he started to whine a little. He was getting anxious because I wasn't giving him any commands and he didn't know what to do. Finally, he sat. (he already knows "sit") I clicked and treated. He stared at me for a second and then sat again. C/T. After about 3 more repititions, I swear his whole expression and demeanor changed. He ran through every trick he knew. He brought me each toy from his toybox. He ran around the room touching various objects with his nose. He barked. He did everything he could to get me to click for him. I had never, ever in my life seen my dogs offer any behaviors before...I had never seen them think, or really do anything other than what they were told. They always just sat and waited to be given a command. The difference was so much that after everything, I really did shed a few tears. I felt like I had been cheating them all for so long.
And I *have* seen the effects of clicker training creeping into other parts of their lives. Ogre, especially, has always been the other dogs' punching bag. He just seems so much more confidant now, and the other dogs see it and are quite a bit more respectful towards him. He's had a fear of building since I got him, and yesterday, we made it all the way into Petsmart without him shaking and urinating in fear. For him, that was major. I did it using the clicker- for every step he took towards the building, I clicked and treated. After about 10 minutes, we made it all the way inside...and as he started to get overwhelmed by what was going on around him, I managed to hold his attention long enough with the clicker to get him to run through his tricks. It was such a confidance booster, that I was able to calmly walk him around the store twice without him shutting down, shaking, and peeing. We still have to work on building his confidance in those situations, but the fact that he was able to do that much is
amazing.
So that was it for me. A 90 pound dog who could be reduced to a shivering mess at the thought of going out in public, and who would allow a 10 pound chihuahua to chase him around the house, nipping his heels, has made an almost complete turnaround. He's still the lowest ranking, and he's still a sensitive dog...but he's much less anxious, much more confidant, and much more prepared to deal with the world than I think he was a few days ago. My other dogs have benefited from it as well...even Pepito, who isn't all there mentally and was never able to learn basic obedience, is starting to understand that the clicker at least is a good thing and he now "dances" on command...which, as small as it is, is an amazing accomplishment for him.