I'm new to akitas, having just adopted Ogre abut a month and a half ago. They've quickly become my absolute favorite breed, and as picky as I can be, that's saying something. [

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Ogre is about 10 months old and he came to me knowing
nothing. He had escaped from someone's backyard, and it was obvious that he had been denied the most basic training and socialization. He hadn't been abused- I don't think his old owners spent enough time with him even to bother. He was just a totally blank slate.
I immediately tried my usual training methods with him. I never, ever use any kind of physical punishment or corrections with my dogs, but I WAS overly confidant and could be loud, rough, and very demanding of my dogs. Looking back, I was a bit of a bully. I had never done any research into dog training, I had just been around dogs my whole life and and did what I had been taught to do. Without really knowing it, I was of the "dominate them before they dominate you, don't let them get away with ANYTHING" mindset. I used +R methods on my dogs, but my attitude was just completely wrong. Looking back, most dogs were probably just completely intimidated into doing everything I said. [

] I loved my dogs, and respected them, and didn't LIKE training this way- it's just what I had been taught to do my whole life and I had no clue there was any other way out there. I had been taught my whole life that in order to have a well behaved dog, you had to completely intimidate them. Speak in a loud, demanding voice, stand up straight, never let them walk in front of you...all of that "make sure you're alpha or the dog will run completely wild" crap. I loved Cesar Millan's show and followed his philosphy completely. I honestly didn't know better and I feel awful that I've spent most of my life most likely scaring the crap out of my dogs.
Ogre very, VERY quickly broke me of my bad habits, though. When I got him home, he didn't know how to walk on a leash, and he was a terrible puller. So, I did what I had been taught to do- put a leash on him and a choke collar, and started walking. He immediately started pulling, and when he did, I stopped, and gave him a leash pop. He SCREAMED and immediately hit the ground and cowered. I honestly had no clue what his problem was, but I felt
awful considering that I had obviously scared him to death. My father, who was with me, told me that he was just trying to "get his way" and that if he wouldn't walk properly on the leash to "pop him again, or drag him." Seeing how obviously scared and confused he was, I couldn't do it. I sat down on the curb next to him and started petting and talking to him. Eventually, he relaxed and got up. This time I took the choke off, clipped the leash to his regular collar, and tried again. He immediately pulled. I stood completely still, he kept pulling for a minute, then realized he was getting nowhere, and came and sat down next to me. As soon as he sat, I gave him a ton of praise and within 10 minutes, he was no longer pulling and hasn't since.
I quickly learned that
any force or harsh treatment- even the wrong tone of voice- shuts him down COMPLETELY. His eyes glaze over, he flops down on his belly, and doesn't move. Until I'm calm enough to treat him respectfully, he won't move from that spot. Looking back, I was taught to train my dogs (by my parents) using some very harsh methods. Until Ogre, it always worked- but looking back, I was constantly frustrated, angry, and yelling at my dogs until they learned something. I thought that's just how it was.
Ogre, is the kindest, smartest, most sensitive dog I have ever met. He will do WHATEVER you say as long as you show him what you want, and ask nicely. As long as you are always calm, polite, and respectful towards him, he is the perfect dog. The SECOND you get frustrated with him- even if you don't show it at ALL, he shuts down. I don't know if all akitas are this way- my akita experience is limited mostly to Ogre. But if all akitas are like him, using hands-off training methods isn't a choice...it's

retty much the only way.
Having him has improved my relationships with my dogs so much- not only is it better for them, but I'm not longer frustrated and angry at my dogs all the time. If they're doing something wrong, I now step back, before I get angry, and figure out what I'm not effectively communicating to them. To most people here, that seems like common sense- but to me, at the time, it just went against everything I had been taught about dog training.
Anyway, the point is, with an akita you will pretty much HAVE to use hands-off, +R methods. I doubt they would respond to anything else. Ogre will allow me to tap him very gently on the rump or nose to get his attention- with about the same amount of force you would use tapping someone on the shoulder. Anything more and he gets insulted and upset, and shuts down.
I think, if you're looking for a challenge, you will LOVE akitas. Raised properly, they can be the absolute best dogs in the world- and in my case at least, teach you ALOT about the right way of communicating with and training a dog. In my experience, akitas won't tolerate people who don't respect them, and trying to "dominate" them will ruin your relationship and most likely ruin the dog as well. In my limited experience, they aren't as "Willfull" as they're made out to be- they just need to be asked nicely, and once you show them a little respect, they'll fall all over themselves to please you. At least, that's how Ogre is- he may just be weird.[

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Anyway, I know this is a long post- akitas are not for everyone, but you definitely seem to be going about things the right way. They're not a "difficult" breed- they just aren't as willing to put up with ignorant, rude treatment from humans as most others. [

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