Has anyone here used a trainer/behaviorist? I have been calling around for one to help us with SA for Sammy, and the first lady just called me back and now I'm TERRIFIED and I don't know if its normal or what.
So, I was telling her a bit about what we'ev been doing and I was saying that he doesn't sleep in his crate and she was like, WHY NOT? Like it made the biggest deal. He doesn't sleep in our bed since I know that can create too much attachment, but on our floor is where I want him and he's comfortable.
And she made me feel like he was like this since he only gets walked about 1 mile in the AM, about a mile in the afternoon when we get home and about a mile and half in the evening - I agree it's not as much as I would like to do, but she made me feel like I'm CAUSING his SA all on my own!!!
I know this isn't like all behaviorists - or I hope not - but in 5 minutes she almost had me bawling!!! AND - she charges $90/hr and we have to go to her - she won't come into our home to evaluate the problem!
Anyway, I'm in touch with a few others in the area but I just wanted to rant and see if interactions like this were in the least normal or what. Am I just crazy? I don't think it's ALL my fault that my dog has SA - I just don't know how to help it. But making me feel bad doesn't make me want to hire you!
Ok. anyway. end rant. any suggestions/sympathy?