FourIsCompany
Posted : 9/2/2007 6:19:32 PM
ORIGINAL: ron2
This is also why I don't just collect pets and add willy-nilly to the group. Not that anyone here has.
Man! ron! If I didn't know better I'd say that sounded like a passive aggressive kick up-side the head! [sm=help.gif] Thanks for the link. I'll check it out.
The truth is, Jaia was doing the same thing to Mia and I brought B'asia in to be his playmate so he'd leave Mia alone (we were planning on another eventually, just got B'asia sooner than planned). It helped A LOT. Now Jaia is focused on B'asia and they're a good match for each other. But B'asia has endless energy and when Jaia is tired of playing, she goes after Mia.
ORIGINAL: Ixas_girl
What's their play like, besides this neck mouthing? Is there any kind of play that Mia enjoys with your two shepherds?
No. She's tired of being their whipping girl. She's starting to avoid them altogether. But it's her state of mind that's bothering me. She's not a happy camper. The Shepherds do mouth each other's neck, but not for long. They're pretty evenly matched and won't put up with it. To initiate play, they usually get a toy and parade it in front of the other. Then it becomes the greatest toy in the world and they fight over it. There's a lot of lying down and "teeth wrestling". Lots of open mouths and teeth flashing, but not much contact. It's mouth to mouth.
Sometimes it seems like Mia's the toy... [&o]
ORIGINAL: DPU
The long term solution is to work on Mia and increase her self esteem.
I agree. We've been doing that for 5 years! [sm=lol.gif] She's just really passive!
The ecollar is still an option but we won't be using it unless we totally exhaust everything else. It's my own hangup, I know.
Mia is in here with me and the others are closed out. She's having surgery this Thursday to have a lipoma removed, so I'm going to have to be real careful with her anyway for a while.
And I'll be sure to post here to let people know how it's going. Thank you all SO much for your input. I really appreciate it.