Ixas_girl
Posted : 9/2/2007 3:01:21 PM
ORIGINAL: spiritdogs
If you don't think clicker training works, and ron hasn't convinced you, you should meet this guy.
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I didn't come here to be anyone's project, convert, "JQP", or student. Or to be convinced, cajoled, or "saved". And, I generally resent being treated like that. Though I'm curious and generous enough to give anyone a listen, I'm extremely picky about the experts I choose to follow. My best teachers have let me find them, haven't trolled for me in any way. And, they're genuinely happy for me when I discover my own truths, even when my discoveries are contrary to their own.
Ron said:
ORIGINAL: ron2
In the end, we're all after the same thing. An affectionate, rewarding relationship with our dogs and the world at large, as best as we can make it.
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I love reading about how people think and feel about their dogs, how they problem solve, what criteria they use, what worked and what didn't, what sounded weird but felt right, what sounded right but felt wrong ... It's entertaining, educational, thought provoking, inspiring. Posts that just bark orders, criticize others, are condescending and snotty, however, leave me frustrated, blocked from good stuff, defensive, shut down.
Some of you watched me go from knowing absolutely nothing about dogs, when I joined this forum (to learn how to handle my untrained/unsocialized 1 year old rescue dog), to ... where ever it is I am now, 9 months later, with my happy, well-adjusted highly social pet. You may recall that I began as an novice in the church of R+ [sm=angel.gif] .... why wouldn't I? Why wouldn't I be attracted to something "positive" rather than "negative." ... LOL! [

] I faithfully studied the way, till it left me short, unequipped, directionless, at a loss. Does that mean it has no value for me? Poppycock! All information has value for me, operant conditioning, as well as ideas and methods about leadership, energy, the use of pressure, etc, that give me the direction, tools, understanding, and confidence I need to conduct the balanced and harmonious relationship that I now have with my "rehabilitated" dog.
So, I give my deepest thanks and appreciation to those of you who share yourselves, your experiences, your knowledge generously without expecting undue deference in return. [

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