pndhounds
Posted : 2/5/2007 1:18:40 AM
I remember a time, maybe 5 or 6 years ago that I came to dog.com for advice for a very reactive, fear agressive gs/collieX. Many offered advice, none agreed on any one piece of training, except to get to a trainer ASAP. Well, we did go to a behaviorist...who sent us to a trainer...who immediately enrolled us in a class..who ultimately saved all of our lives. When I came here then, I wanted authentic experiences, immediate responses, anything that could re-direct my misguided attempts to satisfy my fear driven girl. I remember the advice then was passionate. Not everyone agreed on a solution, but
everyone believed in some resolution for me. And hers. Things have clearly changed in that regard over the years. This prickly thing with CM and the not CM's is divisive and dividing.
What have I learned from CM, as that is the OP's original Q? I have learned that I am doing just fine, given the tough tasks/clients he has been asked to help. I have also learned that dog people need to be much more patient with their worlds, like I asked my distrusting Gypsy to be, ...so she could live in mine.