Angelique
Posted : 2/2/2007 10:37:44 AM
Personally, I welcome a good discussion with a variety of participants. I learn things from people I don't agree with because the conversations make you think and you never know who might contain a perspective or an experience which has incredible hidden value if you look a little deeper.
I don't mind having a few ups and downs with another member here, getting over it, and moving on. Some of my best trainer friends I've met on dog boards were folks I didn't agree with much at all when we first met. But, we found a common ground along the way (a love of dogs) and started sharing information from our different perspectives. Variety and differing perspectives make things interesting.
Otherwise you are just preaching to the choir, and the conversations become boring, limited and repetitious.
While I have little tolerance for those who have no interest in discussing the forum topics, yet repeatedly come here with an agenda, ignore the rules, bait, and offer up nothing but little one liner jabs, I also don't find the over-the-top personal disagreements and excess verbage during those moments productive either. IMO
It makes it difficult to get past the disagreement and back to a productive discussion.
We are all responsible for our own actions and behavior. Dog training and/or social and behavior expertise, are skills. Bad human behavior is simply bad human behavior.
I am only responsible for my own. I'll take that rap and move on.
That's all I have to say about it.
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