corvus
Posted : 8/11/2007 2:23:02 AM
ORIGINAL: espencer
ORIGINAL: houndlove
We offer companionship, structure, emotional fulfillment, company. Most (but not all) dog breeds are fairly hardwired to view the security and structure of a group as just as important as food or a comfortable bed.
I think thats the point of why the dog is with the owners and see them as leaders, thats the point of why the pack members follow the leader, the members are free to leave anytime the pack but they dont do it because a pack makes them feel that they belong somewhere.
The reality is that we are all in the same boat, our dogs are with us, not because we control the resources but because what houndlove said, we offer "companionship, structure, emotional fulfillment", etc. Thats something dogs can not get by themselves
Food, warm bed, etc are just extras (thats something that the dog would be able to find by himself if its needed) but the feeling that he belongs somewhere is the real reason of why a dog stays with the owner i think
Well, that's interesting, because the dog I mentioned earlier was not getting companioship, structure, and emotional fulfillment in any way shape or form from the folks that were feeding her. She went home for dinner and I think she usually slept there, but apart from that, she didn't hang out over there at all. I do think it's slightly complicated, though. In her case, the kids spent a lot of time with her in her early years and she was getting companionship and emotional fulfillment, maybe even structure to some degree. The kids gradually lost interest and then grew up and moved away and she still kept going home for the food and the bed. I wonder if there's a habit aspect in these situations. I also wonder if she would have left her family earlier if someone else started offering her food. In the end, that's what happened, I guess. I think a dog that's used to receiving food from a known source might feel a little afraid of leaving that source until it's definite that it's all dried up. Why would you leave a known source of food and venture into the big wide unknown, even if you were miserable? It really flies in the face of evolutionary theory, and I think dogs have had to care for themselves enough during their coevolution with man to still have that as a strong driving force behind the decisions they make.
Having said that, the neglected dog saw anyone who told her what to do as potential leader material. I think she was emotionally fulfilled as long as there were friendly neighbours around willing to share a walk with her or run her through the few commands and tricks she knew, and she was in seventh heaven when she knew what you were asking her to do and could do it. I've never seen a dog sit with such enthusiasm. I think from seeing how she lived for so many years, I would suggest that a dog can be fulfilled emotionally from a different source to the resource controller and still display the deepest loyalty to the resource controller. Definitely, she left when someone offered her both food and companionship, but until that moment, it was the food that was winning out. Food and a fair whack of habit, perhaps. I think if she'd been a different breed (she was a BC mix), she might have thought of leaving the ready food supply for better companionship.
So in conclusion, I don't think it's a very simple question. I think things like habit and history and breed tendencies come into it. I think that dogs recognise a person that means business and treat them as a leader no matter who supplies the food and walkies and other good things in their life, but that doesn't mean they'll abandon the provider of good things for dogs and go home with the one that sounds like they know what they're doing. I do know one dog who lives next door to such a person. He adores her and is constantly trying to make her happy with him while he makes little effort to get the same regard from his resource controller because she thinks he won't like her if she even sets a rule for him. Again, he would love to live with the one who tells him what to do, but he sleeps and eats at his own home. Again, he's a BC. I think ultimately dogs want the whole package, but they'll settle for just food if that's all that they're getting.