Stacita
Posted : 7/28/2007 7:42:55 PM
I am satisfied to leave it to professionals, which most of us are not.
I think this is a very valid statement. But...I have to caution others against believing that just because someone is a professional they are good for your dogs.
I had an experience a few years ago when I was trying to integrate my mother's dog into our household. He was plain dog aggressive, but not on leash. It simmered with him. I Selected a trainer with 20 years experience and a great website. So trainer knows all. Well mom's dog was human submissive, especially for men, so he saw no problem with him. Tasha & Wolfie were a little undertrained and very bouncy, confident dogs. He STARTED the training by putting prong collars OVER their heads. A prong should never go over the head. One false move from those two equalled a yank hard enough to get a yelp. We fired him after one session although we'd paid for more.
His solution to the dog aggression problem was to never leave them alone and have them all submissive all the time. He wanted all three dogs to wear stim collars.
Yes, I guess this would work, but I like that Tasha & Wolfgang play when I'm not around. I like that Tasha play bows when she sees us. I like that Wolfgang presents objects to us. DH ended up with a nasty bite, and being pepper sprayed by me while breaking it up, Wolfgang was introduced to aggression (he was just short of two).
We found a good behavioralist and re-set the goals. The first goal was to separate the dogs. I took mom's dog back to her house and stayed there.
The second goal was that mom's dog needed a home. Mom was dying. So....we set forth to optimize this dog's strenghts. Mom's friend said she'd take him and as a single woman with no dogs it sounded like a decent fit. But she cancelled. The dog was good with kids and cats. Decent with men, although some made him nervous. And....he was an exceptionally handsome dog. By working with him on the things that could be worked with, and emphasizing his strenghts, he got an excellent home. They still e-mail me on his adoption date.
The third goal was that Wolfgang needed to be resocialized to large, adult males. A few good dogs around the Wolfers and he's a great dog.
We later did adopt a third dog that fits in fine.
Sometimes the right answer isn't necessarily making it work. I don't want my dogs in a perpetually submissive state. I want them to listen and to do certain things, but I really do want them to express themselves.
It was painful to let my mom's dog do to strangers. But he, and they were evaluated by the real behavioralist and he's happy. My two dogs are happy and so is the third we added.